Tantric Massage for Women and Couples

About Me

You want to know what makes me qualified to do this. You want to know if you will be comfortable with me as a person. And you want to know what I get out of it, why I do this - some women would perhaps even leave this site as soon as they see that I am a man, although I would urge you to read Why Go to a Man? first.

What makes me qualified
My name is Alexey. I originally come from Russia, the place where East meets West, where all lines of thought mix and merge to offer a compromise. My professional background is therapeutic massage. I hold a Therapeutic Massage Diploma from a medical university and I used to have a therapeutic massage practice until I decided to switch to professional Tantric bodywork 6 years ago, as a result of some influential encounters with masters who helped me uncover my gift. There are currently no official accreditations that exist for Tantric massage itself, practitioners develop into it from other therapies, and your only criteria for choice are the interpretation that a practitioner has of Tantric massage (which tend to vary a lot) and his/her experience.

You can see my interpretaion throughout this site. As for experience, for 5 years now I have been dedicated exclusively to Tantric massage. I have helped many women to get in touch with themselves, discover their potential and improve their sex life. I have taken people on a journey of self discovery and transformative insights. I have tutored many couples to help them find new love and depth in their sex life. I have been a sexual healer for many, including some very heavy cases. I worked alongside sex therapists and psycotherapists and enjoyed a worldwide clientele.

I currently work in London UK and Spain - Madrid, Barcelona, Valencia

Will you be comfortable with me?
Since a Tantric massage is quite an intimate thing for you, it will of course be important to you to know if you will feel relaxed and comfortable enough with me. I assure you that you will. I am not suffering from overly high self-esteem, it's just that all of my clients, by their own admission, have always felt good vibes and at ease in my care, attention and tranquil attitude, even though for some it was a very challenging situation to start with. I don't try to be anything special, I just genuinely try to connect and to hear while being the normal me and it seems that I have something innate that makes my clients feel cared for, listend to and safe with me.

Perhaps the best would be if we had a phone conversation. Women are intutive and you will get an idea by talking to me. I also prefer to have talked to a client before making an appointment.

I am a gentle soul, meditative, creative and contemplative in nature. I enjoy relating to people on a deep level, connecting with them directly and openly, I enjoy caring, being of help, listening and understanding. I feel a profound admiration for women and I enjoy their company no matter the age, looks or background. I get delighted to see their joys and I sympathise with their difficulties. I also don't want to make our session into anything grotesquely serious, I don't want you to feel like you are coming to a therapist. I explain my view seriously when needs be but at the hour of the massage I want it to be light-hearted and joyful for you, I want you to lie back and enjoy the journey, just have a good time, and I want to be you friend who wants to show you a great place.

What I get out of it
Women often feel suspicious about a Tantric massage. They feel that a man doing it for women would have his personal agenda, is doing it for his own gratification, or even is not a safe person at all. So much so, that women would normally much rather go to a woman for a Tantric massage, although they don't understad that it's often quite useless (read Why Go to a Man?).

These suspcicions are not unfounded, there are indeed many unprofessional Tantric massage offers and by all means please do exercise caution. There are many offers from people who don't know how to do Tantric massage at all, let alone keep it profesional and client-focused.

For my part I can only say that I would imagine my website has given you an idea of my genuine competence and I am always very happy to talk to you on the phone to dispel any fears. I can only assure you that if I wanted to meet women for my personal needs and wishes, i would choose an easier way than working hard at promoting a website and putting difficult concepts into words, and trying my best to trasmit ideas of something that is truly controversial in the hope of getting some blind dates. Truth to be told, I am not old, not bad looking and not boring, and there are much easier ways of meeting women I can think of. This website would be one of the most difficult ways.

But I also happen to be happy in a fulfilling relationship with my partner and I don't have those needs. My partner knows why I do what I do. I believe in what I give and what I teach. I feel that I am helping, I feel that this is needed. I have a gift for this, this is just what I am good at, I am happy to keep developing in it creatively and I find it very fulfilling to open something new to people and to make my contribution to an idea I am very passionate about - that our sexual attitudes are extremely important to our evolution at this moment.