My practice Tantric Therapy is one of the oldest established UK practices dedicated to authentic tantric massage for women, and workshops on tantric sexuality for couples.
Tantric Therapy was opened in 2002. Back then tantric massage for women was mainly known as a genuine practice of sexual healing and education through Tantric approach and direct work with the body, and I had only 5 or 6 colleagues in the entire UK
However, what came later of course is that tantric massage became commercialised as adult entertainment service and you will see that 95% of the current market for tantric massage is ultimately a sex service – similar to an escort agency with thinly veiled new age explanations.
You are probably here because you are looking for genuine growth or healing in your sexuality through direct work with the body, and you are not interested in having a sex service. If so, you are in the right place. With 15 years experience in authentic work with sexuality by tantric massage for women, you are guaranteed a genuine experience, as well as knowledge and support.
About Tantric Therapy
Tantric Therapy is not an agency. I am a sole practitioner, an expert in my field as any therapist, healer or teacher would be, and Tantric Therapy is the name of my practice.
My work involves working with women through Tantric massage, for healing or development in sexuality, and teaching Tantric sexuality in a variety of formats to individuals and couples through consultations and workshops.
I am a professional who is dedicated completely to the research and work in sexuality only. I do not dedicate my time to any other therapies or teaching subjects – I am specialised and experienced in this area.
The work of Tantric Therapy is to help client to develop their sex life to a greater level beyond normal sex. Where sex stops being just fun and games and becomes a deeply fulfilling journey, a powerful and positive energy in your life, a source of wellbeing, a source of love, and a sustainable evergreen relationship that can last you your whole life together.
My mission through my work is to raise consciousness that sex is not just fun and pleasure. It is a hugely important part of wellbeing, happiness, connection, relationship and your self. My work is to equip people with practical ways to live sex on that level, and at the same time through that indeed discover new range of experiences of beauty, richness, happiness that we often so narrowly describe as ‘pleasure’.
As you can see I intentionally don’t lock this approach into Hinduism or New Age concepts. I intentionally avoid talking of chakras, shivas and enlightenment even though I know that some readers will consider it ‘not Tantric’. The heart of what i teach is true Tantric but sexuality is a part of every one of us, we can all live it on that level, and it dosen’t depend on your religious beliefs. I am committed to teaching you this outside any religious or cultural attributes.
I was always deeply interested in Eastern philosophies and spiritual teachings and have dedicated myself to this exploration from my early teens.
I also always felt an especially profound connection with sexuality. From an early age and from my first sexual experience I honoured it as a deep connection, experience of love and energy and beauty of life. I always had a fascination with it.
Very early in my adult life I discovered myself as an intuitive sexual healer. When I spent time with women they often confessed a healing or transformative effect. It was out of the blue – I simply expressed my feeling of what sex is – but I started to pay more attention to this discovery.
I dedicated myself to exploring alternative approaches to sexuality – Tantric and Taoist teachings – which offered a more profound and energy-conscious vision. For some time I intensively trained in and studied these approaches comprehensively and took my own journey of growth in this area.
I felt an opportunity to help others by combining this knowledge with my intuitive ability for sexual healing and I decided to work with sexuality professionally.
At the time I had been qualified from a medical university as a medical massage therapist and I had my established practice. In 2002 I branched out to giving tantric massage for women parallel to my therapeutic massage practice.
By 2003 I dedicated myself entirely to Tantric massages for women.
By 2004 I also began teaching Tantric sexuality outside of bodywork – through consultations and workshops, to men, women and couples.
Since then I have always had a busy and successful practice. From that foundation I spent 15 years gaining professional experience, conducting practical research with my clients and developing my practice further with new methods and approaches – from experience and research.
I have worked with a great variety of people and situations, which equipped me to be able to help most clients as a well-rounded professional.
My competence in my practice and my work has been growing since then as a result of constant research with the people who have learned from me. My practice has been a testing way of seeing what is real, what really works as opposed to what just sounds like a desirable theory. I have had all kinds of clients and situations in my studio, many of which were a challenge to approach for any professional.
I do not have any formal training in Tantric sexual healing and education.
This is because such a thing does not exist and can not be attained.
A professional in this unique and intuitive field can only rise through experience and understanding and the background offers no advantages.
My formal background is in medical massage. My Tantric “training” involved, over these years in addition to my initial education with my teacher, travelling to spend time and learn from others informally. I was also trained as a yoga instructor, meditation teacher, as well as in a variety of therapeutic techniques and educational strategy for adults.
However, any other training is only indirectly relevant to working with sexuality.
My real qualification has been, and could only be, my experience, dedicated research and commitment to develop through every unique client.
Tantra is the way of experience, not academics, so learning from my own personal love life has been a major part of my understanding too. I consider it to be the main source of knowledge for any sexuality guide. I am grateful for it to every woman with who I talked through her body and her mind and what I know now is not academics – it is my observations from innumerable experiences in daily life and with all kinds of people. I am now in a relationship with my long-term partner with who we have discovered a great deal in the Tantric dimension, and I draw on this experience a lot too.
My Professional Approach
I believe that Tantric sexuality is everyone’s higher potential in sex. It is just a better and more fulfilling sex life. Everyone can have it if they learn.
There is no need for spiritual beliefs or conversion into Tantric rituals. I teach these principles as the common sense treatment of your sexual energy, as a greater mastery of your inner abilities in sex. So I strive to be able to teach any kind of person, speaking their language and working towards their aspirations or soultions.
My work integrates a blend of Tantric ideas, Taoist ideas, western sexuality and much of my own research – observations from practice, personal and professional. The Eastern ideas that I use have been reworked to remove any cultural or religious context, leaving the essence that is easy to understand in concept and simply works in practice, suitable for the modern person of today.
My aim is to make sure that whatever you learn can be used realistically in real life. I always take into account the point of departure of a client, what they can relate to, what would be the realistic challenges and solutions in their life.
In terms of educational sessions – for individuals and couples – I try to create a space where your personal views and preferences are respected. I simply share with you some other ideas you might want to try. I leave people in control of their learning, the pace and their conscious choices of what they want to learn from me, and I encourage you to question what I teach for your own life, so that we can get to the truth that will really work for you.
In terms of therapy, my approach is that most of the time problems come from misuse and by learning how to treat ourselves right we remove the problems. I don’t see my clients as ill or deficient, I see them as people who can learn how to create or overcome, someone who simply can develop further. I create a very patient, gentle, unforced space which will be personally pleasant and relaxing as well as supportive.
My Personal Life
I work in London every 2 weeks for several days but I do not live in London.
When at home, I spend a lot of my time on research in my field and on writing about sexuality and theoretical work. My work is my calling which I live and breathe daily and my greatest passion in life, so it never really stops.
I also like to spend a lot of my time on yoga and meditation in which I am very involved.
My work in London doesn’t serve any of my own needs, I am completely dedicated in service to my clients. I am in a beautiful relationship with my partner and we are deeply in love. There is nothing more I could be looking for. She believes in what I do and she supports me fully, because she can relate to women’s issues. My job doesn’t rob her of anything. Because I have her I have more love to give during my massages, and because I do these massages I have more love to bring to her.