Me And My Approach

Yes, I am a man advising women on how to improve their sex life.

Don't run just yet!

Unorthodox, maybe. But women have been teaching men haven't they? Times are changing... and if you would like to see more evolution in sex and no longer be treated to medieval basics, then you automactially have to believe that not all men are brutes who drool over a thought of taking advantage of you - that men are capable of greater understanding, love and compassion. Otherwise who will give you that better treatment? Believe and you will open and inspire. Times are changing and there are plenty of men who have evolved to a higher understanding in sex. I see them in my workshops all the time, and I hear stories everywhere.

And some of us gain enough understanding and heart to do what women do - help the opposite sex to reconnect with ours. Nothing wrong with that. How long will women keep pouring their hearts out to each other without attemtping an open and hopeful communication with men?

You can see, of course, that I am not an average man of those who didn't understand you in the past. I am a professional who has been working with women directly, through their bodies, for many years to nurture female nature to grow - perhaps the hardest and most delicate way of working with sexuality, which tolerates no hoax - the body can't be tricked.

I don't talk from having felt what you have felt, as a woman-to-woman chat might go. I talk from the experience of taking women on life-trasnforming journeys and seeing results in practice, in pure reality of the body and emotion. So do I understand women? It may be that no woman can offer you what I have to tell you - because no woman has nurtured female sexuality so directly through bodywork and so often.

And doesn't it help to get a perspective from a man who has explored his own potential, helped other men to do so, and can tell you what higher planes are possible for your man, and how you can understand him better and help him to get there?

It is easy in female sex workshops and healing events to concentrate on what a woman has to reclaim for herself, but don't we need to understand both sexes and our own responsibility towards the other, to make things flourish in peace?

All I am saying is that there is plenty of choice out there for you, but you may consider this a curious and even fairly rare opportunity.

You can read my full bio here.

My approach

I will not teach you anything that requires converting yourself or your partner into ritualised beliefs. As many women, you may be interested in connecting with yourself spiritually also, but it will come by itself if you discover the Tantric woman in yourself.

Instead, I will teach you about the true potential beauty of sex in your life. Where you can lead yourself through love, compassion, understanding, desire, pleasure and joy as your main guiding lights, instead of imaginary meditations and tedious exercises.

I will tell you the truth about your body that has been so misrepresented in recent years that even the basic principles of its working have been forgotten by women themselves. Only through working with it directly have I confirmed the truth.

I will teach you to open the power of love and emotion in physical intimacy, the power that is the heart of your joy in sex, yet you have replaced it with fears and insecurities. You can believe in that power, create it instead of relinquishing it to a man on pure chance, and become a guidng light for him.

I will help you look at sex in a down-to-earth but fresh, beautiful and profound way, so that you can finally accept yourself, take your happines into your hands, create and enjoy without pressures, tensions and self-doubt.

I will tell you why what you do for men - mislead by conventional advice - only touches his animal nature, and what you can do to help him find a more loving, happy, gentle sexuality in himself for true love and connection in intimacy.

I will tell you about the real world, not some utopic nirvana, where sex is as it is, where you meet a man how he is, and you don't want it to be contrived and imposing, but you gently guide both of you to discover more.

I want you to come out confident that you, as a woman, have the power, undertstanding and faith to feel yourself as a real woman, a master of beauty and sexual realm, where you can create true sexual happiness for the both of you instead of being sad that the right man hasn't come along and hasn't given it all to you.