I don't want to make it sound that your life will change dramatically
from one Tantric Massage for women.
I also don't want to make it sound like to benefit from it you
have to come more than once.
You will always get something out of one session for
yourself, but you will also get more out of it if you come again
and keep discovering through it.
It is a very individual journey and yours will be unique, it will
not be like anyone else's.
Do most clients come as a one-off or regularly?
Some of my clients come only once and they may not be able to come
again for one reason or another, but the experience has been important
to them - the new way it made them feel or new insights that they
got out of it for their lives. Whether in body or mind there are
realisations that will stay.
Most of my clients come back though. This isn't something you would
- or normally could - do every week, but from time to time, or with
a certain regularity, most people find it beneficial and affordable.
Some see it as more of an occasional boost. A Tantric Massage for
them is a good way to feel good afterwards, to take off the stresses
of life and recharge themselves, because it goes deeper into our
feel-good psyche than most feel-good therapies. Many clients enjoy
the sense of peace, calm and glowing, creativity, being amorous
towards the world for some time after they come to see me.
For many of my returning clients this one-off effect is not the
only reason. They also feel a cumulative expansion into themselves.
They see it as a journey which carries on every time they come to
visit me. By and by they may find they are growing as a loving and
positive person in their daily lives. They may feel their confidence
as a woman grow. Their relationships may change for the better or
new good relationships come about when they are ready. They may
deal with their deepest fears, issues, heal themselves in general
or from something in particular. They may feel their sexual being
become more vibrant and happy and their sex lives improve on a more
While every Tantric Masage with me will give you something, to
feel this more permanent and deeper effect on your life you will
of course usually need to come more than once.
Why do you get more out of it if you come regulary?
Massage is like everything else - a one-off will always have
a positive effect and sometimes that's all it takes but many times
one day this effect wears off. Repeating a Tantric sexual experience,
on the other hand, moves you forward, creates new habits and permanent
Repeating it also lets you discover more. You can never discover
it all in one session. It is too much for anyone. Like in physical
training, your body needs to become comfortable and acute on one
level of sensitivity before it can go to another level. You can't
jump higher than your head, you can't feel it all in one go, every
stage rests firmly on the previous stage of the process.
In addition, there is an opposite movement into opening yourself
and letting go on the emotional and psychological level. Female
sexuality has a lot of protective mechanisms, anxieties, fears,
retreating. It would be too ambitious of you to expect to let go
of all of them in one day. You also need to know you can trust -
yourself and me. When you revisit Tantric Massage with me these
blockages dissolve one by one and you become more open to a sexual
experience - so you get more out of it and you get closer to what
I describe on this website.
It is a healing process that can't be rushed. For some first-timers
I won't give my most powerful Tantric Massage, by far, because I
have to respect this organic process of your opening and I need
to ease you in gently.
You don't need to decide now
There is infinite variation in what your journey can be and often
you won't foresee how this will unfold for you until you are on
the journey. I always recommend just coming for your fist session
and then deciding if it should be a one off or a journey for you.
But you might want to keep in mind that the greates treasures don't
open instantly - and that's not just a question of my competence,
it is the natural order that we are all subject to.