It is natural that you will be shy and nervous.
I understand that a Tantric massage is an unusual experience for
you. It is normal that you will feel shy or apprehensive. It isn't
something you need to be rid of before you come. So when we meet
we will start with a warm and relaxed chat which I would like to
be a getting to know each other moment where you can feel that I
am here totally for you, that you can be completely as you are,
natural and at ease, that I am on this journey with you as a friend
and companion, not a distant therapist, and I know that you want
to relax and feel comfortable with me.
I understand that first of all you will want to be comfortable
with me as a person, so you can read some info
about me or just give me a call and I will be happy to converse.
You may also be wondering whether this kind of a sensual massage
experience is something you would prefer to receive from a woman
- you could read Why
Go to a Man?
Traditionally, a sensual Tantric Massage for women is performed
on a fully nude client. Such is the nature of this bodywork. It
is a genuinely full-body sensual massage, i.e. it normally includes
every part of your body. It is about integrating your whole being.
Naturally, this may require you to overcome some boundaries, such
as shyness, anxiety, mistrust or apprehension. I am aware of this
and you will have my support and care at every moment, and in itself,
overcoming those boundaries will have a good effect on you.
Do You Have To Be Fully Nude?
You don't HAVE to do anything. If you find this a mountain too
high to climb, there are options. The most important thing to me
is that this sensual massage is a comfortable and pleasurable experience
for you, so whatever makes you comfortable and relaxed will be accommodated,
it is your call, and you will get the kind of sensual massage you
prefer. I can only give women my recommendation, and that recommendation
is as follows: Tantric massage for women is a great deal more effective
on all levels if you are fully nude. We are working
with sexual energy and we access it through your sexual body.
While this sensual massage is about giving your whole body more
attention than usual and making it whole more sensitive, your most
sexual areas have a very important place in all this. Not only they
are the strongest gateways to your sexual energy, they also tend
to carry a lot of negativity through false belief, conditioning,
alienation and negative experience and it tends to be important
to give them some loving attention.
You can exclude or cover anything you want as long as you don't
expect to feel the same quality of sensation as a nude client. That
would be magic.
Options For Nudity
However, if for that first Tantric massage you are prepared to
trade some effect for extra peace of mind, I have the following
options for you:
- You could choose to leave items of clothing on. It is better
to wear a bikini, rather than underwear, since it is less tight
on your body and is also more comfortable psychologically. If you
can, wear just the bottom half.
- If you are too shy for that, I can offer you a luxurious silk
gown, very pleasant on your skin, and I can start the massage through
What if you change your mind either way?
At any point during the sensual massage you can change the option
and decide to take something off or put something on. You can even
stop the session if you suddenly become uncomfortable.
What will I think of your body?
There is no need to be self-conscious on a larger scale, such
as if you are not comfortable about your body. This might be exactly
why you are here. I am here to show you the beauty every woman carries
inside from birth, regardless of what she thinks of her appearance.
That inner beauty, when accessed, affects your outer beauty. You
are not here to impress me, I am here to give and you are here to
receive. I have worked with all types of clients and my hands love
them all equally.
Remember – one of the major treasures of sensual Tantric
massage is that it liberates you, removes terrible beliefs that
had imprisoned you, makes you accept your body, love your body,
be free in it and enjoy it. It would therefore be slightly counter-productive
to exclude any parts of this body as “not fit” or “not
accessible” for this experience. If you can step over this
barrier in the beginning, I can guarantee you that 5 minutes into
the session you will feel totally comfortable.
Your wishes will be respected
Communicate with me. Tell me what you would like out of the session,
and what you do not like. What you mind and what you don’t
mind. We will do it exactly the way that suits you. Naturally, at
this point I have to remind you that I am a masseur, this is a genuine
professional bodywork and it has no relation whatsoever to the sex
In the end, it is about trust. After the first session you will
be able to trust me totally. But the first session...Trust is intuitive,
there is no method to it. If there was a method, it would immediately
get exploited by clever people who you should not trust. Call
me and talk to me.