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It may seem less challenging for a woman to go to another woman for a
Tantric massage but it is a total waste of time - a genuine experience
will never happen this way. Read >>>
The idea of Tantric Massage may seem so out of your comfort zone that
you will immediately discard it as something a person like you would never
do. But a genuine experience can take you immediately to the level of
understanding that you would seek for a long time through books and talks.
Why? Read >>>
Some people think that is the teenagers who need to learn, and adults
are already informed enough. Or that they may be more things to discover
but it isn't something you go to a professional for - that is for people
who are a failure. Just this one thought may condemn you to a lifetime
of very average humping. Sex education is not for probelmatic partners
or kids - it tuns out to be needed by everyone. Why? Read
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Leave for a second WHAT you know about sex and ask yourself - HOW do
you know it? Are you sure your own experience has showed you all the possible
reality? Are you sure the other sources of your learning told you the
truth, unbiased and complete? How do THEY know, what is their way to that
knowledge? Read >>>
Are you waiting for the next Casanova who will know exactly how to do
everything right for you? Or have you submitted to the fact that good
sex simply won't come from the man you have settled with? Maybe you are
expecting too much from men. It is obviously the woman who is best equipped
to lead the way to good love-making. Make your own happiness happen. Read
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Do you think you need to separate the two? Actually, this is the reason
you might not be happy with your sexual potential - it will never come
even half way like this. What we need is to learn how to have more love
when we make love, because we don't - even when we think we are being
loving. Love doesn't hurt us - it is our definition onf love in sex that
hurts us. Read >>>
Many couples break up without realising that the true cause of the disconnection
was originally in physical intimacy, before it gew into other things.
Sex is not optional - it connects or it distances. And most of what we
see as a normal love life in fact doesn't help us stay together. Read
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We assume that all physical love is destined to fade in the relationsip,
it is just the natural course of things. This is why it does. Our attempts
to salvage it don't work because our ideas are all based on novelty excitement
and we miss the transition to a connecting lovemaking. Our sexual connection
can actually grow with time, not dwindle, if we look into it right. Read
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Have you ever asked your self what you have sex for? What is it that
you want to find there, to give you? Maybe what you do doesn't get you
closer to that? Here is the Tantric vision of lovemaking - could it be
something that would make you happy? Read
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For many people, passion is the sexual ideal. But are you sre that this
is what will bring you happiness? Have you never felt the other side of
passion - the torment, and the loss of passion? Maybe in passion you find
something that you can find in a more harmonious and lasting way than
just believing in magic? Read >>>
Women are often afraid to create an emotional connection with a man.
They rely on reassurance of their fears. However, can this reassurance ever be given?
Would it be more useful to learn how to del with your fears - and with the things that can happen? How can you do that?
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Women can reach a climax by concentrating on physical stimulation of
the clitoris. Although this is the common advice for a woman, this is
not where the road to greater orgasmicity lies. Don't expect anything
extraordinary or easy about these forced reflex responses. Read
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Why sex science fails to show women the way to a great earth-shattering?
They are looking in the wrong place and confuse you with this pseudo-knowledge.
Women can have wonderful expansive orgasmic experiences but are you looking
in the right place and are you investing patiently?
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You may think the only way to avoid frustration is to achieve a climax.
Not true. Frustration happens because you are not channeling your sexual
energies right. Anyone - including men - can have a wonderful frustration-free
sex without having to come if you know what to do. Read
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Do you pressure yourself to reach a climax? Do you feel like a failure
if you can't get there every time he tries to give it to you? It may be
about his problems, not yours. Don't sacrifice your own comfort to someone
else's insecurities. Read >>>
It may seem like a perfect solution and a god-send for women, but in
fact a vibrator is similar to recreational use of drugs - in search for
instant momentary gratification you pollute your sexual being with patterns
that will make it harder for you to feel happy with a partner in real
intimacy. Read >>>
There is actually a good reason why religions have always been afraid
of sexual expression - but their methods only make the problems worse.
Tantra took a different route to sexuality and showed why sex can be one
of the most spiritual experiences a human being can have. Read
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Many people feel restricted in intimacy by the unconscious burden of
religious upbringing. Is it just a trauma from the early years that we
need to heal? Or maybe we instinctively feel that our practices in lovemaking
make is into something we don't want to be? Maybe the road to freedom
is to change what we do, not to look for therapies? Read
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Some background to where Tantric sexual knowledge has come from and what
it is today. Read >>>
Tantric ideas in this area are often combined with the knowledge of another
great culture that offers us deep insights onto this aspect of wellbeing
- the Tao. Read >>>
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