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You might love the idea of having this Tantric Sex Talk or a Tantric Massage Workshop but you are not sure how to break this to your partner. It is a very sensitive subject and here are some suggestions. The main thing is not to see this Tantric Sex Workshop as a signal that something is wrong between you - but to see it as an opportunity to grow even more, discover more, inform yourself more and look into the future to keep your love.

Which could apply to you? (Click on it to jump and read):
1. Your partner will ask "What's wrong with our sex life now?"
2. Your partner will hear this as "You need to improve to be good enough for me"
3. Your partner will find a Tantric sex workshop intimidating
4. Your partner doesn't think this would be important for your relationship
5. Your partner would see it as a bothersome favour for you
6. You don't know how to explain it to your partner

1. Your partner doesn't want to feel there is a problem

The first question that often comes up is: "Are you not happy with how things are?"

Regardless, is there a good reason not to keep growing together, feeling even more joy and pleasure and happiness if you have reasons to believe that a Tantric sex workshop can be informative? As a couple, you venture into this to discover even more, even if things are good. Just healthy eagerness to give even more to each other, healthy curiosity and inquisitiveness. You also make sure things will stay good in the future. Nothing is static - you either keep growing or you eventually drift apart.

If there is a problem you have been talking about - don't accentuate it in your approach to your partner. Just show your eagerness to discover more about sex in this Tantric sex workshop. Remember - it is never about fixing a problem even if there is one. It is always about learning more, accepting where you are and striving for better. Problems come from a lack of knowledge. When you learn problems go away. Concentrate on learning, not fixing.

2. Your partner doesn't want to feel he / she is the one who needs to improve

Don't make it look like you want your partner to learn something from this Tantric Sex Workshop to catch up with you. It is never like this. Both partners always have a lot to learn. A classic situation is the woman being unhappy with the man, but women have a lot to reassess too. For example, when I help with premature ejaculation in these Tantric Sex Workshops I always discover that the woman hasn't been helping her man well to overcome it, perhaps even making it worse. No one gets brought to my studio by the partner to be taught. Both partners are taught by me how to help themselves and each other to feel great in sex.

Make this clear. Just because the suggestion to go for a Tantric sex workshop comes from you doesn't mean you want your partner to fix his/herself for you. You too are curious about what you can do to make things nicer.

3. Your partner may be nervous about nudity in a tantric sex workshop, being in a group or being taught by a man.

These issues can frighten your partner and create a rejection of the idea. Don't react negatively - often partners need time to consider something as sensitive as a Tantric sex workshop. Although the idea is challenging, when they calmly weigh up the pros and cons of doing it, not doing it, different ways of doing it, they may come round to the same conclusion as you. Learning about sex can be frightening. Be patient, don't pressure. Make sure that before you talk to your partner you read very well through all the information about this Tantric sex workshop - so that you can put his/her mind at rest immediately with respect to these worries.

4. You need to let your partner know how important sex is for you

Your partner may simply not believe that sex is that important, or that there is not a lot to change in how people normally have sex. This could be the reason this Tantric sex workshop may not be attractive to him/her. If you think differently you should make it clear. Tell your partner how different you feel when you have great sex, how it changes your life and your love. Share your dreams about the future in closeness and greater love, and that it can definitely happen for you through sex. Make your partner aware that it makes a big difference to you and your partner will be happy to see this Tantric sex workshop as one more way to learn something to make you happier.

5. Your partner needs to know this Tantric Sex Workshop is in his /her interests too

Make sure your partner doesn't see this Tantric Sex Workshop as a favour to you, just because you came up with the idea. There is plenty for your partner to get out of it. It's not about making sex nicer for you - but also for your partner. Your partner will learn to feel more in the body, to feel deeper, to find more love and joy in his/her own heart with you. And you will learn how to give more to your partner. This Tantric Sex Workshop is just as much a present for your partner as it is for you.

6. Read my site and my articles well.

Sometimes the best way to inspire your partner is to give him/her something to read. After all, why explain it yourself when I have already explained it in writing. Choose some articles that particularly resonated with you. Give your partner my whole site to read. Find the positive things in what I wrote that you can inspire your partner with. Don't just skim through the site - read it all well (at least all the details about the Tantric Sex Workshop itself) to have a clear idea of what you are offering to your partner.

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