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UK London Sensual Tantric Massage For Women | Tantric Sex Workshop-Course For Couples, | Tantra Course For Women |
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I have been working in this field as a professional for 8 years. You can read below about why my approach is unique. I have taught a great number of couples and, with rare exceptions, all of them walked out inspired at the new possibilities and later commented that "it changed everything", "it was a gift for life", "it has never been better". They also found the workshops and talks a very relaxing and comfortable experience. All these years I have also been working with women, directly through bodywork, leading them into a vibrant sexual space, and my ideas have been tested in practice in the most rigorous manner - the body tolerates no hoax, the mind might if it is convinced but if the body responds it is because this works. You can see my full bio here.
I am a Male Teacher - and this is not a disadvantage for youActually, being a man I can offer you something unique. Women respond very well to Tantric sex but for men it can be a process of reconciling their more explosive nature with these ideas. I can realate to the pressures of male sexuality, I have walked my own journey in it, and I can offer invaluable advice to men to help them enjoy Tantric sex but without feeling they are giving up on what they like, doing something weird and alien. I don't just strive for men to understand women, as some teachers would, I strive for women to understand men too. As for women - I understand women very well, and perhaps even more than a female teacher who hasn't been working with women as directly throgh the body as I have. You can read here more about the advantages of learning with a male Tantric sex teacher like myself.
My Approach is quite uniqueMy approach is quite unique. The uniquiness of it is in this: My Tantric Sex Workshops and Talks are about Sex! You may think what's the suprise? Well, actually pretty much all of the Tantric intimacy workshops in UK spend most of the time on the following: Philosophy, group rituals, sharing, meditation, movement exercises, exercises on perception, exercises on emotional openness, practicing verbal communication, etc It can be argued (and it is argued) that this is all relevant to open to you a sexual dimension you seek. My opinion is that this is indirectly relevant but by far not sufficient. When actually mentioned, sex in Tantric workshops is often treated as something you do like Kung Fu - with a strict management of energy flow through the chakras while your meditate over your nature and contemplate a path to enlightenment, but I personally don't see why anyone would want to do such a thing while loving and enjoying each other. It's only appropriate outside of sex. So by doing workshops that focus on realities of sex I am actually very unique.
Don't get me wrong - it's not about any sex, it's about Tantric sex. But I've spent enough years teaching it to know what Tantric sex really is and what it is not, and I don't need to convert you into another religion to facilitate what I tell you. It's all common sense for everyone. And sex should always remain sex, Tantric or not - it is first of all about enjoyment, love, desire, pleasure, unity, creativity. Tantric or not, you want to have sex, not do Kung Fu or pray. That's what we focus on. If you are a kind of couple who is attracted by the spiritual dimension of Tantric sex, you will find it automatically by going more into what sex really is, expanding from there. It happens by itself. If this is of no interest, you will just have a better life with a better sex.
So there are certain principles in my approach:
- To Talk About Real Sex. Not some imaginary spirit sex in a lotus positon. You want to feel pleasure, desire, love, conenction, beauty, fun, creativity. You don't want to be channeling energy and convince yourself it feels like sex. You just want to understand more, smoothen the difficult parts and enhance the good parts. - To Accept Where You Are Now. Im not going to give you a perfected vision, miles away from what you can relate to right now. I understand the reality of desires, habits and tastes in sex. I want you to gradually enhance what you already enjoy and try some new things, not to commit to something too alien and give up on all you had before. - To Respect You Like A Variety Of Things. Tantric sex will be for one day, something else for another. It is just to add more variety in your life and enjoy more through these prinicples. - I Want You To Learn Through Sex, Not Through Exercises. Learn while you enjoy, while you love, discover more and explore in that moment, when everything is alive. That's the only way it will happen. Who has time for meditating and circulating your energy for an hour daily just to have better sex? All I teach you is for you to do in sex, not outside it. - To Personalise It For You. This is not a lecture for you to take it or leave it. It is an individual workshop so I will help you find how you can fit it into your sex life in a way that suits you personally best. And if there are any difficulties in your sex life right now, we will address them specifically. - To Give You Enough to Discover More Through Sex Itself, Today. What good is it if you learn bits and pieces until one day you know enough to try Tantric sex. I only have time for basics, but those basics will let you go and enjoy a different whole session of love-making, and if you carry on you will discover more with time. If you can't make sex out of what you've learned, you won't go on. - To Speak Your Language - Tantric sex is for everyone. Not just for followers of any particular spiritual tradidion. If you can relate to energy, we will talk about that. If you can relate to the nervous system, this is how we will do it. Tantric sex is just common sense principles and I can explain them to you in your language. - No Spiritual Beliefs Required. Your beliefs are your choice, and I respect that. You don't need to create a system of beliefs to understand Tantric sex. it is just sex with more common sense understanding that is often hidden from us through false beliefs.
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