As a Stand-Alone
First, Tantric massage can be a very special gift of love for your
partner if you decide to do it occasionally as a stand-alone. Not
only a very pleasurable and profoundly loving experience, it is
also a powerful way to help when you partner feels bad physically
or emotionally. A Tantric sexual state is a deeply positive vibration
that will reinvigorate and literally transform how a person feels.
You can use the power of sexual energy to be there for each other.
By giving this gift to each other you can also give deep healing
to sexual trauma.
With the understanding I give you, you can lead your partner into
such a powerful sexual state that your lovemaking afterwards will
have a very different dimension. You also learn more about how your
partner sexually awakens. You may not choose to do the entire Tantric
massage every time you make love but you will surely use some of
its elements to enhance your foreplay and lovemaking every time.
To Explore Tantric Sex
There is no better way to start exploring Tantric Sex than through
Tantric touch. No matter how much you read or listen about it, there
is nothing more powerful than being given direct bodily experience
of what Tantric sexual states feel like, by your partner, so that
you can try to recreate them in lovemaking yourself. I will give
you a practical tool that lets you experience this.
You can read more about Tantric
Tantric ideas let you understand a lot about how to treat your
partner's body to create a truly vibrant Tantric sexual state.
Importantly, Tantric massage is not just about giving something
nice to your partner. It is also a way to experience your own body
in a new Tantric way, when you receive it, and a way to expand your
Here are some of the things you can learn from the practice of
- how to make each touch between you deeply arousing to the very
heart of your partner's being, beyond just superficially exciting
- how to make each touch between you truly meaningful and let
it speak your true love
- how to enhance the pleasure you feel in your body with a mind-body
- how to lead your own body into the state of total arousal everywhere,
not just local superficial excitement in genitals
- how to keep discovering new pleasures in your bodies every
- how to create desire consciously and organically even when
you don't feel it at first
- how to prolong lovemaking for as long as you want to through
mastering a balanced and organic build up of your sexual energy
- how to feel deep closeness and connection in any physical contact
- how to awaken your genitals to far greater pleasure then usual,
yet also feel love in the genital connection with each other
- for women - how to make your orgasms more possible, expecially
- for women - how to relax into sex and open fully
- for men - how to make your orgasms deeper and more satisfying
- for men and women - how to make love without having to climax
and feel even better afterwards than with an orgasm, without tensions
- how to direct sexual energy to feel a glow of love and energy
after sex, instead of tiredness and disconnection
- how to reinvigorate each other with sexual energy when your
partner doesn't feel horny or is tired, instead of draining it
- how to get rid of any performance pressures and mental blocks
- how to deal with erection problems, premature ejaculation,
difficulty in arousal, tensions, vaginal pains, difficulty with
orgasms, and other obstacles.
- how, instead of expulsing your vital force, you can direct
your sexual energy for your wellbeing, health and longevity
All of this can be explored by giving and receiving Tantric touch
in the way that I will teach you, and it will give you a lot of
clarity how you can also create that in sex itself.