REVIEWS FROM MY CLIENTS

I originally came to see Alexey 11 years ago after leaving my almost celibate but loving marriage.  I had been working through childhood sexual abuse and spent my life always scanning predatory behaviour in my environment and around men.  Not feeling safe and feeling dysfunctional in my sexual relationships. My almost celibate marriage felt like a relief and i relaxed for many years in the safety of this container. However the time came that i wanted to grow and needed more and my marriage couldn’t meet me there so i eventually left. Finding Alexey originally was the most nervous exciting and exhilarating experience. Going there for the first time i was a bag of nerves and made sure friends knew where i was.  However from the moment i met him the moment i entered his space the moment his reassuring voice spoke to me, i started to relax. Over the course of the next sessions i experienced full integrity, love and devotion of the masculine. He held a pillar of professional strength with energy that was clear, precise and pure.  I had never felt so sexually safe with a man before. My guard came down and i felt a sense of peace in my body and my heart.  He gently guided me back into my body and out of my head and i felt electrically alive.  Leaving his place i felt the energy come with me and for weeks after i felt rushes of energy through my body, laughter and joy coursed through my entire being. It was like everything was connected in my body and the energy could surge through like waves. I glowed, life glowed, the world felt beautiful around me. I could feel every sensation, the breeze, the sun, the stillness on my skin.  Everything felt connected inside and outside of me. I felt in bliss.

I met my next partner during this time and he asked me to stop with my sessions so i did. Unfortunately after some time my relationship couldn’t hold the right space for my sexuality. I was totally disconnected from my body and had no sexual feelings at all.  To achieve any type of orgasm by myself i had to go into fantasy and they were often distorted and ugly in their frequency. 

I knew i had to get back to my sessions with Alexey again. It felt like coming back to an old friend.  A place i felt safe and seen and held. However i wasn’t the same as before and wasn’t able to feel like i did before. It was a process a process to let go of expectations of what i felt before and open up slowly to where i am actually at.  To work through the layers of numbness, the places that i go into my head or to perform.  Alexey sees and feels everything, his atunement to my mental and emotional state, the things im thinking and perhaps not saying he knows, and will gently help me make sense of them and guiding me back to my body, back to my heart.  He always guided me back to allowing, to being, to receiving, to flowing. It makes me tearful even as i write this as those moments i feel any sense of shame he fills me up with his tenderness. I’ve seen the progress i have made in my heart. I feel softer more open, more relaxed, more loving, more trusting, more beautiful.  I am so grateful to have found him and so tenderly grateful for the care and devotion he gives me. Experiencing a healthy masculine imprint on my body has been the most wonderful thing for me.

I have recently met someone new who is also experienced in tantra.  We are taking things slow. He knows my history and he knows about Alexey and he understands bodywork snd how amazingly therapeutic it can be with a professional therapist. He knows he can come with me to my sessions because Alexey works with couples too. I feel so grateful for this type of love care and trust. I know it’s because i have cultivated that inside thanks to Alexey.

We have been working together now for 7 months and the progress has been slow and steady.

I love your work Alexey and all that you are. You are a true gift to the feminine. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.  I love you with the sweetest of sincerity ❤️ from one innocent heart to another xx thank you dear one xx

This is a vulnerable share as i have never written this down ever but if it helps put someone who really needs support at ease then i hope by sharing my experience it will help you in your own healing journey xx

When I first came to see Alexey I was deeply unhappy about the sexual aspect of my life; I felt not only dislocated from my sexuality, but also frightened, and even angry about it. Visiting a Tantric practitioner wasn’t an easy option (to be honest, I was terrified), but I was even more scared of staying as I was. As conflicted as I was about sex, I knew that I needed to re-integrate that part of myself to feel whole. I also had a strong motivation in that my relationship was in trouble, and I hoped that by being more at ease in my sexuality, I might help that. I’d tried various approaches (physical, psychological) to untangle what was wrong, but was just left with an ever-greater sense of confusion, coupled with a sense that there was something flawed within me. Alexey and I talked quite a bit before I came for a massage, so that he could understand my situation and I could be a little more at ease. For the first time, someone responded to my apparent confusions with insight, with explanations that made sense, rather than simply labelling me as dysfunctional. I had already had a sense that Tantric principles resonated with me in some way, and this became more concrete as we discussed my experience.

When it came to the massage, I was extremely nervous. Having spent some years in a relationship that wasn’t sexually healthy, I didn’t associate sexuality or intimate touch with anything pleasant. I was at a point where attempting to have sex caused panic attacks in which I’d dissociate, to the point of not knowing where I was, or who I was with. Sex was physically and emotionally painful for me; I couldn’t imagine my body enjoying a man’s touch, let alone one I barely knew. And yet, within a few minutes of starting, my body relaxed, trusted, and to my amazement, enjoyed. I realised that I’d never experienced that kind of touch before, yet at the same time, I immediately recognized it as what I’d been looking for. This sense of recognition is a theme which has followed me through my sessions with Alexey, as though I’m finding the parts of myself that I’ve mislaid.

From seemingly uncontrollable panic attacks and a sense of powerlessness, I now find myself enjoying sex, without pain, without fear, but instead with real pleasure and intimacy. No one could be more surprised than me, and yet, now I’m here, it feels entirely natural. Rather than treating my feelings as a problem which needed correcting, Alexey gave me the space, guidance and support to heal, and to understand my own sexuality. As any therapy ideally should, my sessions with him didn’t just remove a negative, but enabled me to grow, into a happier and more complete person.

It’s not a conventional approach, but then convention left me feeling flawed and hopeless, and I say that as someone with both scientific and psychological qualifications. I feel incredibly fortunate to have had his guidance; Alexey has been a genuine friend as well as a teacher, one who has changed my life immeasurably and to whom I will always be grateful. It was daunting at first, but I’m always so glad I explored this, I feel I’ve been given a great freedom as a result

There’s no way I can fully describe what Alexey’s sessions did for me. I contacted him because I didn’t have an orgasm during sex. I found him through google search and his website resonated with me compared to the over the top super sexual ones. On our first phone call I was so nervous, telling this guy I never met that I can’t orgasm. His voice was really assuring and calming so I started trusting him even when trust was a big thing for me. So we booked a session day.

The session day arrived and I was incredibly nervous. We sat down and I started telling my experience around sexuality and sensuality. I was emotionally/sexually abused by men, felt small. I felt like I didn’t have a right to have pleasure and enjoy sex. I was so disconnected from my body, was living in my head 24/7. Alexey is such a great listener, he made me feel so comforted and safe. He has a natural compassionate and caring nature, it shines through so strongly. You can’t not feel it. I remember so vividly, on our first session, as soon as he put his hand on my heart and my belly, I started crying. I was never touched in such a loving way before by men. There was a deep longing to something I didn’t even know it existed. His nature, his touch showed me this is possible, I can have it.

Letting all the shame, guilt, judgment out. I started feeling sensations not just in my sexual organs but all over my body.

My sexual energy was awakened, I was feeling in my body, not ashamed of sex. I could actually enjoy sex fully without judging myself. Alexey showed me how to be present while enjoying my sexuality, how to give and receive love. He changed my whole notion of what sex is. It’s not just a sexual intercourse where men come and that’s it. It’s about two people connecting and sharing love.

I fully embraced my sensuality, my femininity, my birth right to enjoy my sexuality. This incredible energy, us human beings have and it can be cultivated, used and transformed. Each time I left a session I was flying, feeling so wonderful, so blissful.

I’m at a place now where I can have the sexual intimacy I desire, no matter where my partner is at, because I can show them. Now, I give workshops for women to connect to their divine feminine. I couldn’t have done that if I didn’t have connected to my own femininity thanks to Alexey.

What Alexey does is more than being a tantric therapist, its something I can’t fit in words, he guided me so amazingly in this journey to become the woman I truly am.. I couldn’t ask for more really. I’m ever grateful for you Alexey ❤

You are very lucky if you get a chance in your lifetime to experience what Alexey can and has taught me.Alexey taught me how to understand myself sexually, such a private place. I met Alexey when I was 42, I was reaching a sexual peak, I thought I was
having passionate and great sex life but (unconsciously) related sex with men, guilt, shame and complete heart break. I often felt like I lost a
piece of myself after sex.I felt I wanted someone to help me ¬ how and where do you go for that? I wanted someone to SHOW me, to teach me things I had no idea about. (had NO
idea really what tantric massage was, only associated it with Sting and his wife being all fit and hanging off chandeliers and holding your orgasm
and seemed ALL LIKE A LOT OF HARD WORK).So, one of the biggest leaps in faith of my life, I thought ¬ just do it, call. And he was so (as Alexey is) approachable, patient, kind, explained
clearly all the (what I thought were stupid) questions I asked. I was still very scared but it felt right.I was excited, terrified, slightly guilty ¬ so many emotions. We met in his LOVELY flat, he was more than super. We talked for a long time before
the massage.You can go to a workshop or read on line or talk for hours, but to be in your body, and FEEL it, was the easiest and quickest way to learn.It changed my life.He showed me that sexual energy is an energy. We can do NOTHING with it, or we can open, or we can close.I have been so used to using it uncontrollably (my experience) that it goes OUT and I was left EMPTY, drained, OPEN, VULNERABLE.He showed me with my body, with his kindness, his healing, how to meet my sexual energy.NO DEEP BREATHING, NO SPIRITUAL CLEVER STUFF THAT ONLY BUDDHISTS AND ENLIGHTENED INDIANS WHO SHOWED US TANTRIC (I THINK)

A FULL BODY ORGASM AND THE ENERGY WAS ALL THAT WAS NEEDED. NEVER BEFORE had I even been anywhere near one. Clever Alexey

I was used to opening my yoni (vagina) and keeping my heart closed.

And he showed me to open my heart, (to myself and then to someone else) and through that if you choose, you can open your yoni and invite someone
in.

And then the beauty of truth, that by giving we receive. By truly giving and opening our heart, love can enter. Not romantic, ephermeral, quick
love, but true soft real soft slow love.

And love entered me, through Alexey, pure organic love that is for us all to have which is God.

And when my old patterns came up, he would lead me and guide me and show me, whilst staying open and grounded.

It takes a rare person to have that strength ¬ to guide and lead and keep his intention, he is a true teacher.

He always did this.

So, my soul grew, my sexuality grew, my light inside was turned on, something came alive and it was so safe. And we saw each other regularly
for quite a while and when I left my sessions with Alexey – I felt MORE, like I was more ME.

And then after 5 years single, this new energy inside me led me to my man. And I could no longer see Alexey.

I had to leave school.

And now I am on my own – and the fundamentals, all of it is still here. It is like learning how to ride a bike, once you have a good teacher, you
always know. It is amazing having learnt about myself, that I can be myself with my wonderful boyfriend.

I have and now know myself, and my sexual energy is not so needy, so WANTING, so GIVE ME GIVE ME. And that has given me and our relationship a
huge difference.

And I am growing and not SHRINKING which I normally do when I am in a sexual relationship.

It has certainly brought me closer to my spirituality, to my soul.

And it is exciting and peaceful all at the same time.

Please feel free to call me if you would like to talk about Alexey, be brave and the rewards outweigh the bravery.

There are some experiences in life (and some people that you meet) that can shift the balance of your beliefs in the most positive way… I can’t remember all the reasons why I started to delve into the idea of holistic sexuality or tantra. But I do know I had fallen into a trap of destructive behaviour: encouraging flings/affairs with men who showed no real respect for me. Compromising myself and my long term relationship. Engraving a feeling of guilt, frustration and mistrust into my core.

In every coupling I felt more like an actor playing a part – craving love and adulation…there was no ‘real’ intimacy. Perhaps it was a lack of true love for myself that was allowing me to accept unhealthy ‘relationships’. I didn’t feel worthy of love I didn’t know if I could ever honestly GIVE love.

I remember having a deep sense of ease after our first conversation on the phone – it was as if I already felt safe and trusting of this absolute stranger. How could this soothing voice (talking such absolute sense) belong to someone who sounded so young. And that is the joy/gift of Alexey… Humble, compassionate, sensitive, accepting yet always honest – Alexey helped me to understand the value of my own worth.

I finally began to see myself as a beautiful, strong, intelligent woman. I didn’t need to live a life of self torment I had a heart and soul and I could accept/give love. From our first meeting I knew he would stay an important presence in my life. Through his amazingly intuitive touch, our deep (and always intriguing) conversations and his vast wealth of knowledge (which he shares so selflessly) he offered me the ability to believe in my own beauty (both internal and external). With such a sensitive topic as sexuality – information was never so fast that it made me feel overwhelmed. Yet each time we met I felt I learnt, experienced and grew more than I thought possible.

I began to replace my perceived ideas of ‘sexuality’ (which can be so cheap and fake) with an understanding of sensuality… Living each moment, feeling inside myself, being aware of myself and another – yet not falling into analysis. And this concept of ‘being’ filtered into other areas of my life… Suddenly change that I was so afraid of came effortlessly – a ripple effect as I started to shift the internal negativity…my heart opening.

Every so often I wish I could relive how I felt in that first massage (as it shattered so many illusions) – but really it is inconsequential. Every time is unique and special. Every time offers me more than I could believe. The intimacy of his work, the care he gives to his clients and the dedication he brings – heart warmingly beautiful. I am forever grateful for having met Alexey.

At the age of 33 I split up from my long term boyfriend. Before I met him, I had a ton of fears and hang ups about men and intimacy, which came flooding back to me after the break up. I felt disappointed that I’d not managed to release my ‘stuff’ about sex, and depressed and intimidated about the idea of dating again. The thought of having to tell my next partner I had no experience and actually, found the whole thing pretty terrifying and really intrusive, made me feel utterly ridiculous. At my age, I thought I’d just be ridiculed. The alternative was to be single all my life which was even more depressing.

I’d learned a little about tantric massage by then, so I researched for a long time who was available in the UK and out of a long list of ‘interesting’ websites I finally came across Alexey’s. I read every article he’d written and went over his website with a fine tooth comb; this was such a big thing for me to go to a stranger for help, and a man at that. I felt even more embarrassed and intimidated confiding in a man, so I had to be as sure as I could, that I could trust him and would be safe. Seeing a lot of the other weird websites (and people) made me extra cautious.

I’d worked myself up so much about this, that it took me a week to write the first email to Alexey and another week to actually send it. It wasn’t long before I got a really understanding and supportive reply. He offered a complementary phone call and, despite not really wanting to talk to him on the phone, decided I’d should, since I thought I’d get an even better sense of him. I was so nervous I barely said anything. Thankfully he was happy to do most of the talking. I was surprised at how understanding he was, and also how he didn’t try to convince me to have a session. He just did his best to reassure me I would be safe and wouldn’t have to do anything I didn’t want to and left it at that. In fact, I didn’t have to have a massage at all for the first meeting if I didn’t want to, I could just meet him in person and talk more. That eased my mind a lot.

I got to the first session quite late because I was battling with myself about actually going at all; was I doing the right thing, what on earth am I doing…. all that kind of self talk that drives us crazy. But finally I got there. I remembering pausing at the top of the stairs and Alexey was standing in the doorway of his studio. What made me not turn and run, was the gentle look of compassion and kindness on his face.

I was so stressed the entire session, which I know was obvious to Alexey, but I love how he handled my nerves and defensiveness. He just sat calmly across the room from me, and accepted me exactly as I was. He didn’t draw attention to how terrified I was, but talked calmly in more detail about how a tantric massage went, and the comfort options available so I would be more relaxed. Even when I panicked about something he said, he remained completely calm and gently asked if he could finish explaining.

When it was time for the massage, I asked for a robe. It makes me chuckle now when I think of this; Alexey said something like ‘oh sure, you want to start off with a robe, that’s fine’ to which I replied I’d be wearing it the whole time, and my underpants! He was very respectful of my wishes.

I don’t think I relaxed much throughout the massage, but I could feel instantly how kind and respectful Alexey was; I had experienced that while we were talking, but feeling him touch me took that realisation to another level entirely. I felt so much love from his hands that I’d never experienced in my entire life before, even with a robe on. After the first session I went away feeling really bubbly and happy, not just because of the great sense of achievement, but also because of the beautiful energy and love I’d received from Alexey.

It took some sessions for me to progress comfortably. Alexey would gently try to reassure me and stretch my boundaries, but when I said no to something, he respected my wishes completely.

My conversations with him have been just as valuable. At first when I could barely speak to him, he was always so patient and made sure he understood me. He would spend a lot of time considering the things I was struggling with and would always give me very thoughtful and clear answers. Again, Alexey was completely non judgemental and even though I struggled to speak, I knew I could ask him about anything, or tell him about anything and he would answer thoughtfully and in detail until I understood what he was saying.

Today, I have had three lovers, and naughty adventure in the cinema! They were all exciting and beautiful experiences and I am still with my current lover. I can speak up for myself in bed if I need to, which means I don’t just put up with something if I’m uncomfortable. I can have detailed conversations with him about sex, which feels amazing to me, and I am totally relaxed most of the time to try new things (which used to utterly freak me out.) I love also that I’ve actually been able to tell the men I’ve been with a few things they didn’t know about. So things feel much more equal.

In summary, thanks to Alexey’s help, support and patience, I no longer feel terrified. I can speak to men on a mundane level with so much more ease. I feel totally empowered during sex, really enjoy it, and feel equal to my partner. I am a completely different person thanks to all of Alexey’s help. I feel incredibly lucky to have found him and will always be deeply grateful to him. I am so much happier, and I feel so free.

Alexey has been an incredible mentor and friend on this emotional, and sometimes turbulent journey. He also supported me in between sessions when I needed it. His amazing strengths, are his ability to understand what I was trying to say, even when I barely said anything at all! He is a master of re-framing fears and unhelpful ways of thinking, in a supportive and gentle way. He knew exactly the right time for everything. With this, he was right every time. His caring, understanding, compassion, incredible patience and professionalism. Anyone considering reaching out to Alexey is literally in very safe hands.

My introduction to Tantric sex began when I came across Alexey some months ago, after a devastating marriage breakup many years previously and a long term sexual relationship which left me emotionally dead. My decision to call him has been one of the most important things I have ever done for myself and something that has had a major impact on my life since. It is impossible not to smile when I recall the many times we have spent together. And each time has been different and I have always come away with more than I arrived.

Alexey’s open, honest and sensitive manner was evident in his first phone call back to me and at our subsequent meeting and I very quickly knew that I had found something special and someone special to guide me. His studio, located in London is private, comfortable and welcoming. There I have grown from an emotionally dead and unhappy person to becoming more accepting of myself and my desires and trusting again in my instincts. In the past I had often felt hollow both during and after sex. I had no problem thinking about doing it, it was just when the moment came that I always seemed to be somewhere else. Sex became mechanical and in the end it left me emotionally wrecked. I tried in vain to control how I thought things should be, how I thought I should act or react. And when that didn’t do it for me I tried harder, faster, all the time living in my head space.

With Alexey I have learnt that there is nowhere I have to go to, nothing I have to do or not do, there is no right or wrong way, there just is what is happening in the moment and to enjoy the moment, to accept it, be at ease, to feel the warmth and the love and the energy between the two bodies and to melt into it. Alexey has guided me by words but mainly by the work that he does and has helped me find something that has always been hidden in me. When I practice tantric sex in my life I feel “at home”. The head is not important, the heart is.

In sessions with Alexey, there is no effort, only feeling. Time doesn’t seem to exist for me and the experience leaves me energised for quite some time afterwards. My experience of tantric sexuality flows into everything else that I do and how I do it. I can’t believe how much happier and confident I have become. I smile a lot more. And I am even grateful to the devastations in my personal life that led me to discover Alexey in the first place because I am so much richer for having discovered him and I wouldn’t go back for anything.

When I first went to see Alexey I had lost interest in sex and just thought this was a natural phase I was going through. I had always felt quite disappointed in sex, and had felt that way since the first time I lost my virginity. The world around me placed so much importance on sex and I was naturally a sexual person, so I was excited. But it never quite hit that spot I thought it would, and so after speaking with people who didn’t seem to have a problem, that enjoyed it even, I just accepted my fate and that made me feel separate, like I was the weird one.

This made my search for sexual pleasure confusing as I was seeking acceptance and a feeling of fitting in rather than what was true for me (that I was a sexual person and wanted to express that in a way that was truthful to me and my body). I had a few ‘good’ sex partners but it would always fizzle out, and in long term relationships it would become a point of tension for me as it got to the point that I would just be doing it for them because I was bored. I couldn’t show this to my partner though in fear of him feeling rejected, so I would pretend, and that, in retrospect had a hugely detrimental affect on me, my body and on him, although I did not see it then (if you’re not enjoying it, chances are they aren’t either). In the long run it also made me feel more separate from my body and my partner. So the thing I had feared most was reflected back to me, over and over again, feeling separate and lonely.

When a friend of mine mentioned Alexey and what she had learnt from him I was very intrigued. I knew deep down, that not having a sex drive was not a normal thing, and a part of me knew that it could be far far more than I had experienced. I was so nervous when I first met Alexey as I didn’t know what to expect. Alexey so affectively put me at ease speaking for over an hour the first time we met. His calm demeanour helped me to relax. With each session I became more at ease with him, the situation and my body. I realised in the first session thanks to Alexey’s guidance how much pain and disappointment I held deep within me from past experiences. The accepting of my fate when it came to sex had affected me profoundly. It actually still makes me want to cry. The ignorance of what sexual pleasure is is so distorted in our world and in our outer influences it’s shocking how I just accepted an outside image to be imprinted on me. I’m such a free thinker that this was a wild revelation. I had been brain washed by the media, by porn and by others opinions. It was not the fault of any of my partners either because they did not know what ‘sex’ could actually be either.

Sex is a integral part of our lives. Two people had sex to create us, that’s how powerful it is! How can we deny this truth and why is it such a Taboo subject?! Because of belief systems thats why, and so we suppress it and turn to porn and other black markets to get education and satisfy our urges, which is just crazy and irresponsible. There should be millions more teachers like Alexey here to educate us, because sex in the world today is so destructive and belittling of our potential. On the flip side, ‘sex’ or love making can be an utterly blissful experience that gives us creative energy to live fuller and more joyful lives in our true spirit. What I experienced during the sessions went far beyond any of my expectations. Alexey has totally blown me, and my beliefs, away to make room for the pure joy, bliss, innocence and vulnerability in my sexuality. In actual fact, he guided me back home (home being my body). And I understood this quote profoundly as I worked with Alexey: “We shall not cease from exploration, and at the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time.” This realisation profoundly and spiritually moved my perception of what sex can be. It’s not just an act, but an integral part of who we are and our individual experience here on earth.

Since learning from Alexey I believe I am more joyful, more creative and more courageous than I ever have been, and that’s not an overstatement. I have taken these tools and used them to teach my present partner how profound love making can be, and it has totally blown him away too. So not only did Alexey save my life but he saved my current partners limiting beliefs around sex and he will save many more by the knowledge imparted to others from the women he works with. I have never felt so powerful and connected to a person when connected to them through tantra, oh and I have never experienced such profound orgasmic energies than I do now either. I never knew that my body could feel this way, and am discovering new things about it every day (clitoris orgasms are actually the most boring orgasms ever – and I used to only have them!). And now I can’t wait to have sex, to continue my exploring, through my body, because every time is different when it comes from a place of honesty and love. My sex drive is totally back, and wilder than ever before, and I love it! It’s a very empowering energy that I can take into lots of areas of my life.

If you’re pondering whether or not to do this, take a deep breath and offer yourself the most powerful gift of all. Step into the unknown and let the beautiful tantric energy Alexey explores with you envelop you, mesmerise you and all of your senses to a point of no return. Haha! Enjoy!!! I love you Alexey!!!

My first appointment with Alexey came during a particularly challenging time in my life; an unhappy relationship, low self esteem  & and issues around trusting men.

My first massage with Alexey was absolutely beautiful and it was at that point I realised how skin hungry and intimacy deprived I was; and I was blown away by how such a small amount of time with Alexey could change me so much. I will never forget the warmth, comfort and genuine heart Alexey showed me that day and how the situation, albeit new for me, felt like home

Alexey has a wonderful energy, he’s a very deep soul with a touch like no other. It doesn’t matter what state I arrive in, Alexey has such an awareness of my feelings he always puts me back together and I leave feeling balanced and content. I trust Alexey  completely and his ability to hold a space for a woman is quite honestly breathtaking.

When I first started seeing Alexey, my husband and I strived for high intensity, passionate sex, which was becoming increasingly stressful; just to try to feel higher. Very different to the insanely beautiful, tender, loving and gentle love making we now share. Alexey’s work has taught me how to listen to my partners touch, so now even the smallest embrace holds such an incredible sensation and meaning. We enjoy sexual intimacy daily, whether just holding each other close or more. Each time is beautiful, completely unique and brings us what we both need on a daily basis. Our relationship has its challenging moments of course (as most do!) but the incredible intimacy we share only reinforces that love we have for each other and strengthens our relationship with each passing day.

The benefits to my life by far surpass any physical experience. Alexey’s work has brought me back from a place of depression and despair, to enjoying life and valuing my existence. I’ve gone from being incredibly ashamed to fully accepting and loving myself, from hiding parts of my personality to loving them and embracing my uniqueness. After many years of hiding, this is by far my biggest blessing.
I will always be thankful that my path brought me to Alexey’s door and the immeasurable positivity his incredible work has brought to my life and my marriage.

Thank you Alexey.

Sessions with Alexey have been a really wonderful, and insightful experience for me.  Through my time with him I have, and continue to grow in confidence and my ability to embrace intimacy.

I came to the sessions rather frustrated, disheartened by intimacy as a result of past relationships and clouded by issues surrounding my body.  Basically I carried around a lot of baggage- it was weighing me down and preventing me from enjoying being with someone, or allowing myself to be me.   I had reached a point where I had resigned myself to a life behind self-protective barriers.  A friend suggested trying tantric therapy.  I must say- this made me really nervous, and I was skeptical about what I would be able to achieve through sessions.  I wanted to ignore issues, sitting comfortably behind my barrier, not face them.

 However, shortly into the first session, I knew that I had made a good decision for myself, and the development of me.  Alexey immediately put me at ease, and I felt truly wonderful, and for the first time in a long time, relaxed and comfortable with my body.  This has continued to extend, as I move through sessions, learning more about myself and leaving past baggage behind. I am developing a new love for myself that I thought I had lost.

 I cannot really express in words how it has changed things for me, and this may sound like an exaggeration, but you really do have to try these sessions to see what I mean.  If you are uncertain like I was, I would not hesitate to recommend this.  It has done so much for me, and I am still growing and learning J Thank you Alexey!

I came to see Alexey because I had sought this kind of healing work – although he doesn’t really call it healing or therapy, nor is it work – as a kind of enquiry into a part of myself that needed revival.

I had experienced very tough frontline bereavement in my recent past and had a history of tricky relationships, including marital discord, blockages in sexual creativity and historical sexual abuse.

I was really scared to come for the first time, since I’m really not accustomed to tantra, nor have I ever been particularly sexually adventurous or even prioritised sexual energy as all that important in my life. I’m a working mother of three and have a really busy schedule. Most of the time, I’m cleaning, taxiing or making dinner. Having said that, I knew that if I was going to keep living myself, and feel at all vital, this was what I wanted to wake up. And living is risk, right?

It took me a while to kind of get the idea of how the sessions could work. Alexey is really sure-footed with boundaries, giving me gentle but firm clarity on this rather strange and unusual relationship. I could compare it to working with a teacher, someone who is more expert than you, constantly checking your understanding, stepping back when you’re overwhelmed and feeding you more information when you can take it again. It’s a good feeling!

Once I was in the zone, I saw that I could use this really valuable and rare space – of physical touch from another kind and safe person, without many of the usual distractions and obligations of modern relationships – to meet myself calmly and observe what my own body is, what it does, what it wants, how it expresses itself. That was really joyful and such a relief – at last!! I also deeply learned something brilliant about how love works too – that it can be exchanged genuinely but without attachment or drama. I had sort of known this already but this was proof. I could see how a good arranged marriage might start in this peaceful, goalless, no rush sort of way.

It turned into an aspect of adulthood apprenticeship. This should be in our lives. Far from the squeamish or rampant hysteria that usually accompanies sexuality, we should all get the chance to learn how to become artists of our own sexual energy. It’s ridiculously sad that most people never know how ordinary and healthy this is. Such maturity could really take the pressure off so many monogamous partnerships at the very least.

I recommend Alexey and his work. At first, I was impressed with his professionalism and integrity. But somewhere along the line, I was blown away by the generosity of his gift and how he gives his life to this service, helping people through sexuality to become more fully themselves. Thank God he does.

Before I started going to his sessions, I had more of an interest in sex and little actual experience. For that reason, I had waited so long for a sexual experience. But when my long-awaited chance came, I was blocked and unable to have sex comfortably. Really, for a woman who had been out of practice for so many years, it was a real shock. I was hoping for a quick resolution to this problem. I don’t know exactly why I believed so, except that a wrong assumption which I am unlovable prompted me. I immediately searched websites by key words like ‘sexual massage’,’ Yoni massage’ and etc.. At first, I had some resistance to contacting a male practitioner since I was worried about how men reacted to me and my issues.At the first session with Alexey, I explained my problem with wondering if he thought how bizarre my question was. However, just after one session, I felt surprisingly happy as if the fog lifted and there was not loss of self-respect or embarrassment. Afterwards, I decided to have the session regularly because I felt that what I would gain in the session might bring me appreciation of I who am a female, correcting negative impact on what I perceived in the past and what I knew about sex. In the end, all I experienced in the sessions meant much more than words. At present, I feel I have a healthy perspective of sexuality and metaphorically speaking, it is nice to have sexual energy as important as the nutrients from the daily meals.

I had tried many therapies even before the sessions with Alexey. I had always wanted to be better myself and also believed that there was something missing in me. I feel I found myself as a woman and I am happy. Also, I naturally stop creating a state of unhealthy wanting toward others. It is because finally I am able to turn love to myself.

After the breakup of a long marriage, i had no confidence, no self esteem andbelieved no one would ever want to be with me or want me physically.
I knew i needed help but had no idea who could help until i came across tantric therapy. All i knew was it had to be something focused on my lack of self worth as a woman.I was too nervous to ring even though i liked what i read on the website. I eventually phoned and as soon as i spoke to Alexey i was reassured, there was no pressure, we just talked and i knew i would go for my first session.Right from the first session I felt safe and secure enough to talk about my fears and problems.Each session is different, and Alexey is sensitive to my specific state of mind that day, he understands women and is kind and loving.. always.
For me what Alexey teaches is about sex with love, appreciating the magic between a man and a woman,
I j am so happy to have made that first call, the call that started the process which has helped start loving my life again …