The answer is – an orgasm is irrelevant in a genuine and knowledgeable Tantric massage performed on a woman’s body.
If an orgasm happens, you let it happen. If it doesn’t you don’t create pressure to force it.
A good Tantric massage, and in particular the specific vaginal technique of Yoni massage, would allow you to experience your sexual energy in a way that lets you enjoy it but doesn’t create pressure. That means that at the end you would be just as happy without an orgasm as you would be with one.
It may be difficult for some people to believe because normally our sexual energy moves through a very different pattern – lots of build-up and then an orgasm. However, this is precisely why a Tantric massage is not just any sexual experience – yes, you can be very happy every second of the way and not be a slave to having to complete a result. A good Tantric massage will channel your sexual energy right to ensure this.
In fact, in my Tantric Massage For Women this becomes a very useful experience that teaches you how to be free from this chase for the orgasm. It means you are always in the position of power, a position of choice – if you have an orgasm great, and if you don’t it’s great too in a different way.
If you have an orgasm during a Tantric massage you just let it happen and enjoy it. And if you don’t, you enjoy the different happiness your sexual energy gives you when it stays inside you. It is a very interesting experience.
The best attitude to an orgasm in a Tantric massage is to not know or not care if it will happen. Just know that you will be happy at the end anyway – providing the practitioner knows what he is doing.