Improving Sexual Confidence in Your Sex Life

Working with Tantric massage for women can be a powerful way to increase low sexual confidence when a woman feels a lack of sexual confidence.

 

There are a few reasons women lose their confidence in sex – related post.

Here we discuss just one of them – often it is because they are unhappy with their own performance in sex.

 

Women can lose sexual confidence because they can’t orgasms

Or because the orgasms are too weak, or too infrequent

Women can also have low sexual confidence because they can’t get aroused easily. Or they don’t want sex as often.

 

Altogether, anything perceived as a low sexual response in a woman can lead her to lose her sexual confidence. She may start feeling something is wrong with her, her lover is likely to be upset by it, to feel threatened or insecure, which would put pressure on the woman even more and the cycle would go on, resulting in a crisis of sexual confidence for the woman.

 

However, more often then not it is not that the woman has a low sexual response, is it that she hasn’t approached herself well enough in sex to respond well – or her partner hasn’t, and building sexual confidence is simple as long as you simply know what to do.

 

I have had many people in my studio who felt little with their past or present partners but responded strongly to the Tantric massage or more specifically the Yoni massage. It was normally easy to deduce what I did in the Tantric massage differently compared to what women normally do.

 

We carry an enormous amount of false beliefs, unrealistic expectations, doing things in sex simply in the way that don’t work for our body. When we don’t see results in sex we lose sexual confidence. But that low sexual confidence came simply from misuse, not from a genuine problem within.

 

This is what a good Tantric massage can do – if it is genuine and from someone who knows what they are doing, not someone who just offers “Yoni massage to release tensions”.

 

A Tantric massage is a chance to educate yourself on what your body can really experience sexually. How to treat it right in order to reach that sexual energy. It is a way to clear out the lies that you believe and put yourself under pressure for. For example, in a Yoni massage what is most important is not the kind of physical stimulation, but a consciousness woman has in her Yoni. Women get frustrated not feeling enough inside rubbing harder and harder causing even less feeling, not knowing that the best way to make your body feel good is with a mental and emotional focus.

 

In a Tantric massage a woman can see that her sexual confidence doesn’t have to rest on achieving high performance. That there are many ways of being sexually alive and responsive, happy and fulfilled, and there is no need for them to be so stressful and target-centred.

 

It is a physical direct experience, of how the best sexual arousal and sexual response can happen, what is needed for that, and the increase in sexual confidence comes from having had this experience, rather than just believing it.

 

In the end, a Tantric massage is about understanding the truth of how you should be treated by others, and by yourself, to feel at your best, because most of what you know about sex is simply false. Most of what we think a woman should feel and how she should achieve that – is false. This is the tragedy in our society.

 

Then sexual confidence will increase naturally from your experience.

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tantric therapy can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
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