Maybe Women Shouldn’t Lose Their Inhibitions in Sex!

Many of the clients who come for a session of Tantric massage therapy for women or Yoni massage healing session feel that they would like to lose their inhibitions in sex.

However, before finding out how to lose your inhibitions during sex the fist question that has to be asked – are you genuinely inhibited or maybe your inhibitions are not actually inhibitions – maybe it is self-respect that comes from common sense, or even plain good taste!


These days the values of sex have gone into crazy grounds. There are lots of practices, more and more extreme, that are becoming mainstream and expected of sexual partners.


Granted, it can all be good clean fun if this is what you are into. But this is precisely the point – what if you are not into it. Does it really mean you have to be striving to be more “uninhibited in sex”?


What if you believe that sex to you is about mutual respect, clarity, honesty of attraction just as you are, maybe you feel it is about tenderness and sharing some love through the body. Maybe for you it is a sublime or even spiritual experience.


Maybe you want to express the best of yourself as a loving human being rather than the most animal and primal. Who has a right to call this “inhibitions in sex”? It is just a personal take on things.


These days porn serves as the model. Yet in porn everything is staged to satisfy the fast food of male sexual psyche, the darkest places where women are dominated and used. They serve their men on screen, certainly very uninhibited in sex. Yet they are not real women, it is all staged. Then men expect that from real women and if they don’t get it there is that statement that the woman is inhibited in sex and she has to lose her inhibitions during sex.


Granted, sometimes women can get very nervous and they can’t let go of into even normal loving sex to enjoy it. Sometimes there is a true inhibition to a normal act of lovemaking and  there are ways to lose your inhibitions.


But often she just wants to make love and somewhere she just respects herself enough, she finds it odd to be playing someone’s toy or reenact something.


You don’t need to decide on your own if having a tantric
massage is the right thing for you.
It is not your job.
It is my job as a professional to explain to you how
tantric massage can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
will be useful, safe and comfortable.
As a client, your next step is just to discuss this with me
without making any decisions, and see if this feels right.
There is nothing to lose or to risk – a phone chat is safe and anonymous for you at distance.

Take advantage of my free initial phone consultation