I don’t want to make it sound that your life will change dramatically from one session of Tantric bodywork.
I also don’t want to make it sound like to benefit from it you have to come more than once.
You will always get something out of one Tantric massage session for yourself, but you will also get more out of it if you come again and keep discovering through it.
It is a very individual journey and yours will be unique, it will not be like anyone else’s.
Do most clients come as a one-off or regularly?
Some of my clients come only once and they may not be able to come again for one reason or another, but the experience has been important to them – the new way it made them feel or new insights that they got out of it for their lives. Whether in body or mind there are realisations that will stay.
However, a lot of my Tantric massage clients come back for a few sessions. A Tantric massage isn’t something you would – or normally could – do every week, but from time to time, or with a certain regularity, most people find it beneficial and affordable.
Some see it as more of an occasional boost. A Tantric Massage for them is a good way to feel good, replenished, revitalised and connected, because it goes deeper into our feel-good psyche than most feel-good therapies. Many clients enjoy the sense of peace, calm and glowing, creativity, being amorous towards the world for some time after they come to see me.
However, for many of my returning clients this one-off effect is not the only reason. They also feel a cumulative expansion into themselves. They see it as a journey which carries on every time they come to visit me.
By and by they may find they are growing as a loving and positive person in their daily lives. They may feel their confidence as a woman grow. Their relationships may change for the better or new good relationships come about when they are ready. They may deal with their deepest fears, issues, heal themselves in general or from something in particular. They may feel their sexual being become more vibrant and happy and their sex lives improve on a more permanent basis.
While every Tantric massage with me will give you something, to feel this more permanent and deeper effect on your life you will of course usually need to come more than once.
Why do you get more out of it if you come regularly?
Tantric Massage is like everything else – a one-off will always have a positive effect and sometimes that’s all it takes but many times one day this effect wears off. Repeating a Tantric sexual experience, on the other hand, moves you forward, creates new habits and permanent states.
Repeating it also lets you discover more. You can never discover it all in one session. It is too much for anyone. Like in physical training, your body needs to become comfortable and acute on one level of sensitivity before it can go to another level. You can’t jump higher than your head, you can’t feel it all in one go, every stage rests firmly on the previous stage of the process.
In addition, there is a movement opposite to opening yourself and letting go on the emotional and psychological level. Female sexuality has a lot of protective mechanisms, anxieties, fears, retreating. It would be too ambitious of you to expect to let go of all of them in one day. You also need to know you can trust – yourself and me. When you revisit Tantric Massage with me these blockages dissolve one by one and you become more open to a sexual experience – so you get more out of it and you get closer to what I describe on this website.
It is a healing process that can’t be rushed. For some first-timers I won’t give my most powerful Tantric Massage, by far, because I have to respect this organic process of your opening and I need to ease you in gently. Some people also choose to excludes parts of the Tantric massage to start with, so they can ease into it more comfortably – for example by excluding the Yoni part of the massage for the first session.
You don’t need to decide now
There is infinite variation in what your journey can be and often you won’t foresee how this will unfold for you until you are on the journey.
I always recommend just coming for your fist session and then deciding if it should be a one off or a journey for you. Either way it will enrich your life.