The sex therapy directly with the body by using Tantric massage is a very effective treatment for sexual anxiety in women – when a woman feels anxious about sex in general, or she feel some form on anxiety when she is having sex.
Sex therapy for anxiety in sex and anxiety about sex in women, in London
Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.
How Tantric massage can help you if you feel anxious in sex / about sex
Reconditioning the instinctive anxious response in your body
A lot of anxiety in sex is a natural response in the body out of your conscious control. You can’t talk to this response.
Often the only way to remedy this anxious response is to give direct positive experience to the body, so that it stops responding negatively. Your nervous mind also gets reconditioned through these positive experiences.
Your body learns from loving nurturing touch in Tantric massage that sexual feelings are ok, they are positive, they are good for you.
Your body heals this inherent anxiety, it learns to trust and to look forward to sexual feelings.
Teaching you to deal with anxiety
There are special mental and emotional techniques in Tantric sexual methods.
With these techniques you can stay more in your body, more connected to the positive feeling, which helps you to prevent the anxiety in sex and eventually you can stay there throughout the sexual experience, without the anxiety arising.
These technique also help you in the moment when you feel anxiety. You can calm yourself down, release the anxious response and get back into the positive feeling to carry on.
Anyone can learn these techniques with some practice.
Creating a new positive vision of sex
There are many ways in which normal sex in our culture neglects a woman’s wellbeing. It can come on as too aggressive, emotionally traumatic, physically uncomfortable, disconnected or pressuring women into doing things they are not comfortable with. This contributes to the negative anticipation of sex and anxiety about sex.
Tantric sexuality is much more aligned with the women’s true physical end emotional needs. It is a vision of sex that is nurturing, loving, and positive for you body and emotions.
You can learn this vision from the real experience – by Tantric massage.
Once you understand how different sexual feelings could be, you will feel more open and trusting towards sex. You will also learn how to create it in your life.
More information on Tantric massage:
You can also read about Yoni massage therapy for women’s issues.
How my consultations can help you deal with sexual anxiety
When you are healing sexual trauma, it is much more effective to work directly with the body and change its natural responses.
However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with your particular difficulties.
As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.
FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION
I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether the Tantric massage is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.
I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.
All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.
This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.
Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.