If you have a busy mind during sex, can’t switch off and can’t get out of your head – you can definitely resolve this with using Tantric therapy as sex therapy. My unique approach with Tantric therapy is certainly one of the most effective remedies for this problem, with a very high success rate.
Sex therapy and help for being too much in your head during sex, in London
Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.
How Tantric Massage can help for feeling unable to switch off or get out of your head during sex
Learn to get out of your mind and into your body
I have to teach you certain mental techniques. These techniques allow you to shut down the mental noise and become completely present in your body. It is a certain kind of mindfulness – but a special kind, not generic mindfulness you may have read about elsewhere. In sex presence need to be practised in a special way because sex is quite a particular space.
The Tantric massage is an opportunity for you to learn and practise these techniques. As you receive touch and sensation I guide you with my voice how to listen and connect. This way you get real experience and get better at it. You can also observe immediately how this technique enhances and creates feelings in your body.
It is very helpful to practice this new mental approach in a direct body experience like Tantric massage. In this controlled guided practice I can take you through it step by step after which you can carry on developing it on your own in your sex life.
Learn to enjoy sex without pressures and worries
A Tantric massage also teaches you to approach the sexual moment with a different philosophy. In this experience you learn to connect with the present moment, to enjoy sexual energy in your body in all its forms, for the beauty of the moment.
You learn to stop rushing, pushing yourself, performing and achieving – all the stuff that keeps you in your head during sex. You learn to appreciate and value the nourishment in each moment. It becomes a more relaxed approach to sex where you naturally let go of concerns and pressures.
I will create this experience for you in the Tantric massage with a combination of the right quality of sexual sensation, the right sequence and the right mindset which I will guide you through. Your body will learn to organically perceive the sexual moment in this relaxed way, and you will learn how to approach sex with a different attitude.
More information on Tantric massage:
For more information read about therapeutic Tantric massage.
You can also read about Yoni massage therapy.
How consultations can help you deal with this problem
It is very beneficial when you learn this approach through experience. In the controlled practice of Tantric massage i can take you through it step by step while you connect to the real feeling. There is a strong benefit to working with the body directly like this. In this case a tantric massage a much more effective remedy than talking.
However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead – in person or by Skype. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.
As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.
FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION
I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether the Tantric massage is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.
I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.
All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.
This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.
Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.