If you suffer from poor body image in sex and feeling self-conscious in sex, then you can try a method of healing women’s sexual issues by working with the body which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London. It is a practical and body-centred remedy to overcome this interference in your sex life.
Sex therapy and help for self-consciousness and poor body image in sex, in London
Many clients who come to see me suffer from poor body image which affects their sex life.
You may feel self-conscious during sex in such an overwhelming way that it doesn’t allow you to enjoy sex, frustrate both you and your partner, or even encourages you to avoid sex.
On the milder end of the scale you may be ok with your sex life but you feel a constant nagging noise in your mind about how your body looks and how self-conscious you feel in sex.
That can’t let you relax during sex and leaves you restricted in what you are comfortable with doing, such as activities, positions, lighting and what you wear / don’t wear.
A Tantric massage has generally been a very helpful remedy for my clients of this type.
If you are looking for a therapy / treatment to help with poor body image and self-consciousness in sex, there are undoubtedly various options. However there are some strong advantages to using something so experiential and body-focused – the experience itself is transformative.
How Tantric Massage can help if you suffer from poor body image and feeling self-conscious in sex
In the Tantric massage I teach you special techniques to be more present in your body, more connected to it.
This helps you to escape the negative talk in your head and instead to feel more sensation in sex.
it is a very effective displacement technique and you gradually get better and better at it.
With the Tantric massage I also teach you to value and appreciate the beauty in your body more, in each detail, in every moment. There is a change – you stop evaluating yourself mainly by your looks, and you start appreciating yourself for the beauty you feel within.
Everyone has that beauty of sexual energy within, everyone with no exceptions.
A Tantric massage is an experience of receiving nourishment, beauty and love from the touch of the person who gives it. When you focus on that you get en experience of feeding your own body with love and nourishing sexual energy.
In this way you practice self-love and self-acceptance through your body. You practice giving love to your body and celebrating it.
This can have a very powerful effect on your relationship with your body – and for many of my clients it does.
More information on Tantric massage:
To understand more read full info on Tantric massage for women.
You can also read about Yoni massage for women in London.
How a consultation can help if you suffer from poor body image and feeling self-conscious in sex
There is no substitute to working directly with the body when you try to change how you feel about your body. It is very effective to practice a different connection with your body, to appreciate it in a real experience, and to give it real love.
However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead, in person or by Skype. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.
As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any healing process it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.
DISCLAIMER
I make it clear that I am not a qualified and accredited sex therapist.
In the UK the formal definition of a sex therapist is that of being a medical professional or a psychotherapist. These therapists are not allowed physical contact with a client.
I have explained why these approaches are limited for many people with sex problems, while they are very helpful for some.
I provide solution and / or improvement through an alternative approach to sex therapy that is explicitly based in the client being touched in a sexual / sensual way as a guided and educational experience. I do not use bodyworks that involve non-sexual touch, nor do I provide talking therapy. I make it clear that it is not accredited as conventional sex therapy.
My approach rests on giving you a safe and supportive environment to learn about a positive sexual approach and receive a healing effect from this journey.
I don’t treat medical conditions or psychological disorders. If you are in need of this kind of treatment, you have to see a qualified professional in those areas.
However, you are welcome to work with me in combination with those professionals to support your work.
FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION
I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether the Tantric massage is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.
I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.
All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.
This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.
Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.
