Sex therapy and help when you can’t relax or let go in sex, in London
Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.
How Tantric Massage can help if you can’t relax or let go in sex
It is very difficult to give yourself an instruction to ‘just relax’, and it’s useless to give someone advice ‘you need to relax’. You already know that you need to, but you don’t know how to achieve that.
This is why a Tantric massage is an invaluable remedy / treatment if you can’t relax or let go in sex.
– In the Tantric massage we create an experience for you where all the pressures are off, you don’t need to do anything, don’t need to worry about your partner, don’t need to achieve anything or perform.
– You are in a safe, nurturing and supportive environment.
– You have a chance to not chase anything, force anything or perform – in fact you are not allowed, as you are passive on the massage table.
– You have to go into your body, and just learn to receive sensations with a relaxed mind, connect with them more and enjoy them with no pressure, or expectations from yourself or your partner.
– During the massage I am teaching you special Tantric mental and emotional techniques to relax into the sexual moment. I guide you with my voice into a certain emotional and mental state. You will learn these techniques for your own use in this Tantric massage.
– The physical experience of Tantric massage itself is a soothing and nourishing experience of sexual energy – very different to what you normally would feel in your sex life. This makes your body let go deep within, removes sexual tensions and blocks from your body, and allows your body to enjoy the moment in a relaxed state of mind.
You learn from this experience and you become able to flow in sex in your private life without mental tension. The therapy of tantric massage also makes your body naturally more relaxed and sensitive in sex.
Tension / relaxation are instinctive and subconscious reaction in the body. They are very difficult to affect intellectually – with talking therapy etc. There is no more effective method than direct communication with your body that teaches your body to relax.
More information on Tantric massage:
For more information read about Tantric massage therapy.
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How consultations can help you deal with this problem
There is no substitute to working directly with the body with issues of tension / relaxation. It is the most effective and fastest remedy to provide sex therapy for this problem.
However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.
As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.
FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION
I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether the Tantric massage is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.
I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.
All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.
This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.
Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.