If you are looking for a sex therapist in London to help you with a disconnection from your body in sex, you can try the Tantric approach to sexual healing which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London. It provides a treatment and remedy for this sort of problem, by working directly with your body.
Sex therapy and help for feeling disconnected from you body in sex, in London
Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.
How Tantric Massage can act as a sex therapy for feeling connected to your body in sex.
Learn a better way of engaging your body
Often, how your body is treated is a big cause of your problems with feeling disconnected. If physical contact is mechanical, objective-oriented, then your body will withdraw into numbness. The tantric massage will show how different your body may feel when it is treated with a more present, loving, communicative touch. There is also a certain sequence of arousal that you need to learn for your body if you have this problem. Once you understand this from experience you will be able to recreate this yourself in sex, or communicate it to your partners.
Learn the mental technique of connection to you body in sex
There are specific Tantric sexual techniques on how to be more present in your body during sensations, how to enhance sensations and how to stay with your feeling.
These are sexual techniques – but not physical techniques. Without practicing these techniques your mind may be too overwhelmed by distractions, anxieties, pressures or emotional triggers. This can create a block between you and your body, or a negative reaction in the body that leads to numbness.
The tantric massage is a chance for you to learn these techniques with my guidance, practice it and get better at them.
Learn how to connect to your body emotionally during sex.
It is also very important for a woman to connect emotionally with her body during sex and feel it as a loved, happy, living space rather than a machine to work for pleasure. It is a human and intimate connection with yourself and it contributes hugely to how connected you will feel. This is also a state of mind, similar to a technique, that I can teach you and you can practice during the tantric massage.
Develop the sensitivity in your body
You can feel a disconnection from your body in sex because you simply struggle to feel enough, and this causes frustration. A tantric massage makes your body more alive, more sensitive and more responsive. With greater sensitivity you will find it easier to feel and stay connected to your body during sex.
More information on Tantric massage:
For more information read about Tantric massage for women.
You can also read about the Yoni massage part of the Tantric massage
How consultations can help you deal with this problem
When you work on the disconnect from your body during sex, the benefit of sex therapy though direct bodywork is that you achieve a real transformation in how you relate to your body. You develop an ability. A tantric massage a much more effective treatment route than talking.
However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.
FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION
I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether the Tantric massage is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.
I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.
All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.
This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.
Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.