Sex therapy and help to heal and recover from sexual trauma, in London

If you feel that anything in your sex life has been traumatic, and caused a change in you that you would describe as sexual trauma – then you can try working directly with the body as a method of sex therapy for women, which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London. It can be a very effective remedy and healing because it erases that trauma from your body and reawakens you directly.

There are more extreme examples of sexual trauma such as a sexual assault or sexual abuse in childhood.

However, just like with the damage your body can take in other, less dramatic, ways than outright violence or abuse, you can sustain sexual trauma that will affect your sex life from something fairly habitual in relationships.

It could be anything that crates a negative effect on your enjoyment of sex.

Some of my clients lost their virginity in an uncomfortable or painful way and carried on with their sex life feeling anxiety and discomfort, where sex kept reinforcing itself as a negative experience. This is sexual trauma.

Some of my clients were in an emotionally difficult or abusive relationship – and consistently had sex in that state. For a women’s body this causes sexual trauma.

Some of my clients were in a relationship where they had conflicts and pressures about sex – consistently having sex in that environment. This also causes sexual trauma in women.

Some of my clients were with a partner who was simply insensitive in sex, or a poor lover. Reluctantly accepting of that for the sake of the relationship, over time the resentment for these women became sexual trauma.

Some clients were affected in their past relationship by lack of sexual connection, lack of interest from their partners, unsuccessful attempts to keep a sex life alive.

There are many more examples, but in short anything that causes you any sort of negativity or distress in sex, especially consistently, can become somatised in your body as sexual trauma. It could be in a perfectly normal relationship, without violence or abuse.

In sexual trauma your experience in sex is affected:
– you body could lose feeling
– you could feel less desire or interest in sex
– you could find it difficult to get aroused
– you could feel negative emotions during sex
– you could feel some discomforts or pains
– sex in general could becomes something you dislike or avoid

I have given treatment to many clients who looked to heal traumatised sexual responses in their body and mind. Generally, this body-centred experiential sex therapy is very effective – as it is the reverse of how the trauma happened.

We can provide sex therapy on this issue in two ways:

Through a tantric massage appointment

Through a consultation appointment

(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)

Do call me for a consultation as we would need to focus on the particular problems you are having and from there I can explain more specific methods.

How Tantric massage can help you heal / recover from sexual trauma

Change the negative response with positive experience

Your body feels sexually traumatised because of negative experiences in the past that it had to sustain and learn from to protect itself.

This may also go for how you feel emotionally during sex – you may feel triggered by your past experiences into anger, anxiety, frustration or shutdown.

A Tantric massage gives you new positive experiences that your body will learn from. Your body learns to trust, to open, to look forward to the positive experience of sexual energy.

These experiences are specially structured to create this opening, healing and regeneration. They are tailored for your particular difficulties,

Tantric massage gives a very special sexual energy, unlike what you’ve had before – loving, nurturing, respectful, revitalising.

It will convince your body that sex is a positive feeling and your body will let go of the protective mechanisms.

 

Healing and reawakening effect

Tantric massage creates real sexual energy in your body. This sexual energy is a positive sunshine on any trauma. It is nurturing, healing and regenerative.

We literally infuse you with positive healing energy during the Tantric massage.

You sexually awaken, come to life, you become sexually revitalised.

Learn a new quality of sexuality

A Tantric massage teaches you through experience a different vision – how a sexual experience can feel nurturing, loving, empowering, how it can give you energy and wellbeing.

You let go of the previous, possibly traumatic, versions of sex that were imposed on you.

With this new knowledge you can, and you want to, create this goodness in your life. You gain a positive attitude to sex.

You become able to create his quality of sexual energy in your life yourself. You can continue your own healing, have healthy sex, and prevent sexual trauma in the future.

More information on Tantric massage:

For more info read about Tantric massage sessions for women in London.

You can also read about the Yoni massage healing aspect of this bodywork.

Tantric massage may seem like a very unusual way to treat your problem, maybe even out of your comfort zone.

But if you think logically, it is the most effective.

In sexuality you can read and talk all you want but when the real moment comes your mind and body react instinctively – from their conditioning, habit, experience. They don’t remember what you talked about, they act from what they felt, what they trust, what they believe from experience.

Healing sexual abuse through Tantric massage:
– You learn from real experience in your body – but in a controlled, guided and supportive set up
– Your body receives profound healing from real positive experience
– Your body builds up positive memories and trust
– Your body reconditions to a natural positive response
– Your body is awakened with real sexual energy
– You gain control over your mind and responses in real practice

Working with direct responses of body and mind this is a profound transformation and healing. You become someone different, it’s not just reading or hearing an idea.

We will take all the necessary caution to create a safe space for you, whether everything will go at your pace, with your comfort, and you will be fully in control. It will be a completely professional and structured treatment process for healing.

How my consultations can help you recover from sexual trauma

When you are healing sexual trauma, it is much more effective to work directly with the body and change its natural responses.

However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with your particular difficulties.

As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.

FREE INITIAL PHONE CONSULTATION

You don’t need to decide on your own if having a tantric
massage is the right thing for you.
It is not your job.
It is my job as a professional to explain to you how
tantric massage can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
will be useful, safe and comfortable.
As a client, your next step is just to discuss this with me
without making any decisions, and see if this feels right.
There is nothing to lose or to risk – a phone chat is safe and anonymous for you at distance.

Take advantage of my free initial phone consultation