Sex therapy and help for lack of confidence in sex for women, London

Women who feel lack of confidence in sex – whether not feeling confident in the moment of sex, or generally lacking sexual confidence as a woman – can benefit greatly from a more direct and body-focused approach to sex therapy for women, which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London.

It is quite common for women to feel a lack of confidence in sex.

Often, you may not feeling confident during sex because you worry about your own sexual responses – whether your body can become sufficiently aroused, how it will respond, whether you will have an orgasm, what is the best thing to do for your body, and how it all comes across to your partner.

You don’t know enough about how your body works, as mainstream sexuality misunderstands female sexuality completely and many women struggle to engage with sex, which hurts a woman’s confidence in sex.

You may often have noise in your head – anxieties about sex, self-consciousness, insecurity, which block you and make you lose confidence in what you should be doing in sex.

Many women also feel under pressure to perform and do a good job pleasing their partners. They often lack confidence in these sexual skills and worry if they are doing it right.

Sometimes women also feel a lack of general sexual confidence in yourself as a women – how you act sexually, how you come across sexually, how attractive your sexuality is, even outside of the moment of sex as such.

Exploring Tantric sexuality you can connect much deeper with your feelings and find that grounded confidence in every moment of sex. You can act from that place to be a good lover and create sexual energy between you. And the sexual energies that you discover can make you flourish as a sexual woman, giving you that confidence.

The Tantric massage is a direct and experiential way to discover that Tantric sexuality.

I have worked with many clients who wanted to find some sort of treatment or therapy for improving their confidence in sex. The Tantric massage has generally performed as a powerful sexual healing that helped them recover that sexual confidence.

We can provide sex therapy healing for the lack of confidence in sex in two ways:

Through a tantric massage appointment

Through a consultation appointment

(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)

Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.

How Tantric massage as a sex therapy can help you recover your sexual confidence

The Tantric massage helps you heal for your lack of confidence in sex in several ways.

Through the Tantric massage you discover yourself as a sexual women, you understand a lot more about how your body really works and how ti can feel.

For some women who were looking for treatment or therapy for some issues just to see that everything actually works well, when approached correctly, was a great boost to their sexual confidence.

Tantric sexuality understands the woman’s body much better than conventional technique. You will discover the richness and depth of your sexual energy and you will rest in the confidence that you are sexually alive and fully responsive.

You will then be able to use this knowledge in your life in full confidence that you know how you body needs to awaken and where you should take it.

Through the Tantric massage we are also teaching you how to be more present in your sexual moment, fully connect with it, and not to be blocked by intrusive thoughts, worries and self-consciousness, which affect your confidence int he moment of sex.

By using these techniques you can act naturally and freely, enjoying each moment of sex creatively without being blocked by your self-assessment and insecurities.

If you connect more with your own sexual feeling and your body deeper, you will also be able to feel more confident in sex as a good lover.

It may sound counter-intuitive, but being a good lover is about coming from your own feelings.

if you anxiously try to perform a good job for your partner, your technique will be weak. If you love your partner’s body from your own feeling, your own enjoyment and relaxation, then you will be more natural and powerful in sex.

Connecting deeper with your own sexual feeling you will discover how to flow naturally loving your partner. You will feel not just some confidence in a sexual skill, but a true natural creative lovemaking.

For many women who have my Tantric massage, this experience also recharges them with deep sexual energy. This sexual energy revitalises you as a woman, flows through you in your day. it often expresses in the way you carry yourself, interact, there is a certain radiance.

So a Tantric massage can give you that feeling of being a woman, the sexual confidence in your daily life.

Overall, it is about wellbeing – and when your sexual comes to wellbeing in a Tantric massage, this sexual wellbeing radiates as sexual confidence.

More information on Tantric massage:

Please see more info on Tantric bodywork for women and bookings in London.

You can also read about Yoni massage technique for healing.

Tantric massage may seem like a very unusual way to treat your problem, maybe even out of your comfort zone.

But if you think logically, it is the most effective.

In sexuality you can read and talk all you want but when the real moment comes your mind and body react instinctively – from their conditioning, habit, experience. They don’t remember what you talked about, they act from what they felt, what they trust, what they believe from experience.

Working with the body through Tantric massage:
– You learn from real experience in your body – but in a controlled, guided and supportive set up
– Your body receives profound healing from real positive experience
– Your body builds up its knowledge of feelings
– Your body learns to respond naturally and easily
– Your body wakes up to life from real sexual energy
– You learn how to connect to your body in real practice

Working with direct responses of body and mind this is a profound transformation and healing. It becomes the way you are, your natural state.

How consultations can help you deal with this problem

The benefit of sex therapy though direct bodywork is that you achieve a real transformation in how you relate to your body. You develop an ability. A tantric massage a much more effective treatment route than talking.

However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.

As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.


You don’t need to decide on your own if having a tantric
massage is the right thing for you.
It is not your job.
It is my job as a professional to explain to you how
tantric massage can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
will be useful, safe and comfortable.
As a client, your next step is just to discuss this with me
without making any decisions, and see if this feels right.
There is nothing to lose or to risk – a phone chat is safe and anonymous for you at distance.

Take advantage of my free initial phone consultation