Body-centred way to help you awaken from low sexual desire or no interest in sex

If you are looking for a therapy or treatment to help you with low sexual desire, low sex drive, low libido or low interest in sex, then you can try an approach to sex therapy for women, based on working with the body, which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London.  is an exceptionally effective, practical, body-centred remedy that can get you back into full sexual aliveness

Our culture says that low sex drive in women comes mainly from a natural difference in sex drives, or hormones, or past trauma.

The focus in mainstream therapy / treatment to improve a low sexual desire is mainly on the woman needing to fix something – her physiology, mental patterns, trauma, etc

In some cases it’s true, but I’ve worked with many women on this issue, and in the vast majority this was not the cause of their low levels of libido.

In our culture we are overlooking the most obvious cause of a low sex drive in women:

Sex as it is normally practised doesn’t work well for women.
It is designed well for men, and works well for men, but it is quite ignorant of how the woman’s body and psyche really work in sex.

As a result women don’t get enough out of sex – and it’s only logical they start feeling no interest in sex.

For example – the usual pattern of arousal by passionate aggression and stimulating genitals is great for men but works poorly for women. The usual way of movement in the intercourse works well for the penis but this is not how the vagina feels at all. Sex based on excitement and novelty is more suitable for men but won’t hold a women’s interest in the long-term.

There are many examples in which we defined sex in general by how sex works well for men. We apply this to women and when it doesn’t give great results we say it is a dysfunction in women.

It’s a case of practising a bad approach that gives poor results and when this – only expectedly – happens, then of course she is not too interested in doing it often.

The most obvious cause of low sex drive is not some physiological dysfunction.

It is simply because women don’t get enough out of sex. Sex is ok but it’s not enough to keep her major interest.

Women don’t feel deeply nourished and happy in sex. They don’t feel a great journey, connection or love. They don’t feel that sex impacts on their day and their wellbeing.

When they do – they don’t find themselves seeking help for low libido and low sex drive.

Women experience sex as some physical rubbing for a sensation and a bit of excitement / fun. That’s ok, but it’s not enough to desire sex often, or to keep being interested in it all your life.

It is only natural that your body and your mind lose interest and would rather do something else. Something so natural in any other area, in sex we call it low sex drive, low libido, low sexual desire – presenting it as a dysfunction.

With the vast majority of my clients who came to me for therapy / treatment on low sexual desire, when I showed them and educated them on correct approach, how to open a truly fulfilling sexual energy in their body, how to receive something truly meaningful and enriching from sexual sensation – it turned out that everything was fine with them all along.

They discovered healthy interest in something that shows clear value. They want to keep it up and nourish themselves with it often. And their bodies often work just fine, when approached correctly – even if they were convinced all their lives that their bodies are numb, dysfunctional, etc.

Of course it will vary from case to case but the majority of cases showed this result, even if it may take a few steps.

I have provided sex therapy for many women on improving their low sex drive / low interest in sex and there has been a very high success rate.

We can provide sex therapy on low sex drive / low sexual desire in two ways:

Through a tantric massage appointment

Through a consultation appointment

(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)

Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.

How Tantric Massage can help to improve your sex drive / libido

Learn how your body needs to be treated correctly

Many women have a low sex drive because they don’t know how their bodies need to be aroused for the best effect. The conventional techniques in mainstream media that both men and women learn work very poorly for women. If you fail to engage your body correctly you will have low interest in sex.

You need to understand:
– the right touch / sensation
– the right sequence
– how the woman’s body really gets aroused
– how the woman’s body really feels within the vagina
– the right way to engage female sexual areas
– how the woman needs to connect to her own body to increase her feelings

You have to radically change how you approach your body in sex – conventional technique is simply poor and ignorant. You will then discover much more powerful sexual feeling and that will increase your sex drive and libido.

Tantric sexual technique is very different to our mainstream technique and understands the woman’s body much better.

Tantric massage shows you this better technique on your own body – and you also learn from this.

Once you have a clear picture of what you need in sex as a woman, you can create this in your sex life. It is essential that you understand yourself well. From here it can be quite easy to explain to your partners, or even to guide sex yourself.

Learn how to create more enriching sexual energy

Likewise, it is not enough to create ‘pleasure’ in your body. This is why you lose interest in sex – this becomes meaningless in the long-term.

Sex has to be an experience that nourishes you with aliveness and energies, it has to be en emotionally enriching journey, and an experience of love and connection with your partner through your physical contact. Then you will want it often. That’s what an improved sex drive / sexual desire is.

A Tantric massage shows you how you can create this greater feeling of sexual energy in every moment, not just some basic pleasure.

This is achieved by:
– special different kind of physical contact
– how you connect with your body emotionally
– how you listen to the deeper and more meaningful qualities of sexual sensation

All of this is what I can show you in Tantric massage, by giving you the right experience and guiding you how to connect with it.

The idea is for you to see and understand that the sexual moment can have a different quality that engages you more – and you will get more value out of it. Once you see this clearly you can recreate this in your relationship.

Tantric massage brings a new sexual aliveness into you

Another powerful reason why a Tantric massage becomes such an effective therapy / treatment for low sex drive / desire is because it is a real body experience.

It is a real influx of new sexual aliveness, new sexual energy into your system – to re-awaken you and revitalise you.

Whereas a talking therapy would simply teach you something / remove some pattern in your mind, the added benefit of tantric massage is that you actually get a boost, an awakening of your sexuality within your body.

There is an organic process from there – that once your body gets a ‘jumpstart’ it wants to keep experiencing this sexual energy, it wants to keep reaching for this nourishment in your daily life.

An increased libido / sex drive come from literally charging you up with sexual energy during the tantric massage.

More information on Tantric massage:

Please see booking Tantric massage therapy for women.

You can also read about therapeutic Yoni massage I offer in London.

Tantric massage may seem like a very unusual way to treat your problem, maybe even out of your comfort zone.

But if you think logically, it is the most effective.

In sexuality you can read and talk all you want but when the real moment comes your mind and body react instinctively – from their conditioning, habit, experience. They don’t remember what you talked about, they act from what they felt, what they trust, what they believe from experience.

Working with direct responses of body and mind this is a profound transformation and healing. You become someone different, it’s not just reading or hearing an idea.

Generally I have an exceptionally high success rate with clients who look to improve their level of sexual desire / libido / sex drive.

There are of course many factors and we would need to discuss your situation in particular.

However, generally it is an effective and organic approach to create natural stronger and richer sexual energy in your body, and to show you greater value of sex which will make sense to you and nourish you in daily life.

How consultations can help you improve low libido / low interest in sex

There is no substitute to working directly with the body when you try to awaken from a low sex drive. You make so much more impact on increasing your libido when the body itself is sexually revitalised.

However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead, in person or by Skype. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.

As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.

FREE INITIAL PHONE CONSULTATION

You don’t need to decide on your own if having a tantric
massage is the right thing for you.
It is not your job.
It is my job as a professional to explain to you how
tantric massage can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
will be useful, safe and comfortable.
As a client, your next step is just to discuss this with me
without making any decisions, and see if this feels right.
There is nothing to lose or to risk – a phone chat is safe and anonymous for you at distance.

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