Sex therapy and help for numb, lack of feeling or sensation in vagina during sex or penetration

If you are looking for a sex therapy / treatment to heal the feeling of vaginal numbness, or little sensation during sex, or not feeling much or no feeling at all during penetration / intercourse, you could try a Tantric massage, which I provide for this purpose in my practice Tantric Therapy London. By working directly with the body we may be able to restore some of your feeling / sensation in the vagina during sex.

Many women can feel enough in the clitoris but the have little or no sensation / feeling in the vagina during penetration and intercourse.

Sometimes there can be no feeling at all in the vagina during sex, which women will describe as feeling completely numb inside the vagina.

These cases of not feeling much in the vagina in my experience can range from fairly straightforward to complicated.

Some women can have little sensation or not much feeling during sex because the penetration doesn’t approach the vagina correctly. The technique is not right to create the right feeling. Mainstream penetration and intercourse technique is great for the penis but doesn’t work very well for the vagina at all.

Women who have a naturally sensitive vagina can feel enough even with a bad technique, but if you generally struggle to feel much inside the vagina, then the bad technique can create very little sensation in the vagina during penetration, or even no feeling in the vagina at all during sex.

In general the feeling in the vagina during sex is not something women have from the start, as is the case with the penis and the clitoris. The vagina is a complex organ where you need to connect to it correctly to feel much during sex. Women generally don’t get to learn these approaches.

As such the vagina is in a way not developed enough for feeling. Women can often further block sensation in the vagina if they feel shut off from sex in general, or not in the optimum emotional and psychological place during sex.

Some women have numbness in the vagina during sex as a result of sexual trauma or sexual abuse. There can be a protective block from the body to shut off all sensation in the vagina during penetration. In these cases there is often a feeling of complete numbness in the vagina during intercourse, rather than just little or not enough sensation.

Women also vary a lot in their make up. Some women have a naturally not sensitive vagina physiologically. There can be no history of trauma or even a good techniques and these women will struggle to feel much in the vagina during sex.

While it is tempting to conclude that you naturally don’t feel much inside the vagina, in many cases I have found it not to be the case.

I found that with working on this issue through the treatment / sex therapy of Tantric massage and Yoni massage we can often create the right techniques and the right connection to your own body to discover and enhance the feelings inside your vagina.

I’ve had some clients who never felt much in the vagina during sex but once approached correctly even in the first Tantric massage, they can feel a lot.

For other clients the process of recovering feeling in the vagina was more long-term.

I will also be frank in that it is not always possible to increase the feeling inside the vagina or resolve the numbness during sex.

Cases vary dramatically so it is important that you call me and we can discuss your circumstances. From there I can explain how my approach to sex therapy through Tantric methods can help you with numbness / little sensation in the vagina, and I can tell you how likely we are to succeed.

We can provide sex therapy to the problem of having no feeling in the vagina during intercourse in two ways:

Through a tantric massage appointment

Through a consultation appointment

(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)

Please call me to discuss your particular experience. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.

How Tantric massage can provide sex therapy / treatment for not feeling much sensation in the vagina during sex, or feeling completely numb in the vagina during penetration / intercourse

Learning the correct technique

The first step to giving treatment for this problem or feeling little or numb in the vagina during sex is to see whether you will feel more if we approach the vagina correctly.

I have seen many clients whose partners treated the woman’s body during sex in a way that won’t make much feeling inside the vagina, or even block it further into numbness.

Unfortunately such technique is widespread and represented everywhere in our media.

Even on the physical level it has to do with strength, pace, stillness, connection, gentleness, speed, etc.

The part of the Tantric massage called Yoni massage explores the feelings inside your vagina.

It is a form of internal massage done with hands but you will see how the contact inside the vagina needs to be to create the right feeling. it is very different to what people normally do in sex.

Some clients at this point already have a lot more feeling inside the vagina.

Another important component is how you connect to your vagina yourself during sex. With the right mental and emotional technique you can discover and create more feelings.

I will teach you those techniques and you can practise them within the massage. Again, at this point some clients can feel a lot more feeling inside the vagina.

If this goes well for you then it means that your vagina is fine, and what was lacking was the right technique – physical but also mental and emotional connection.

The sex therapy / treatment for healing vaginal numbness in sex or feeling little sensation during penetration would consist of you taking onboard the right technique and practising it with your partner at home. You can develop your feeling further and recover the full range of sensation inside the vagina in intercourse.

Healing the vaginal numbness / lack of sensation or feeling inside the vagina

If when we use the correct techniques you still feel numb in the vagina or don’t feel much, then it would be the case of doing a course of sex therapy / treatment to gradually and patiently develop your sensitivity to feel more.

Yoni massages will give healing to the vagina, and you will get better at connecting with the vaginal sensation positively and becoming more present to your feeling.

You might clear up the shut down in the vagina and teach it to feel more.

We achieve this again by giving correct touch to stimulate the feelings – loving, nurturing and better informed touch – and by practising how you connect to your feelings inside the vagina and enhance them, with my guidance.

The success of this approach to treating vaginal numbness will vary from case to case and we can only try and see if you respond well to it.

Learning a better arousal

Arousal is another thing that is often overlooked in women who have no feeling / sensation inside the vagina during penetration.

The vagina get aroused through the whole body, not through the vagina directly.

If the technique for arousal is poor – such as only stimulating the clitoris – the vagina will not be awakened and you may feel the numbness or little sensation in the vagina during intercourse. Unfortunately, most of the mainstream sexual technique doesn’t understand the woman’s arousal at all.

You need to awaken your whole body very well, profoundly, with loving and powerful sexual touch.

You need to learn about your arousal to create more feelings inside your vagina.

More information on Tantric massage:

To understand more read full info on how Tantric massage sessions work.

In particular this problem is addressed with Yoni massage for vaginal numbness.

Tantric massage may seem like too much of a direct way to give sex therapy / treatment for vaginal numbness or having little feeling inside the vagina during sex.

But if you think logically, it can be very effective.

You need to learn to feel your vagina while it is approached correctly and you have space to learn to connect to it.

Through Tantric massage:

– You learn how the vagina needs to be approached from real experience, which you wont be able to understand just from explanations.
– Your vagina receives healing from an expert
– Your vagina builds up, from experience, positive memories and trust
– Your vagina responds to real experience
– You improve your way of connecting to your vagina in real practice

How my consultations can help you heal feeling no sensation in your vagina during penetration

Because the problem is how your body feels / doesn’t feel, it is much more effective to explore in a real experience how your body responds when approached correctly, and what we can add to improve it.

However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with your particular difficulties.

As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.

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