Sex therapy and help with problems with sexual arousal, in London

If you find it difficult to get aroused and are looking for a therapy or treatment to help you with problems in arousal, then you can try working with the body to heal sexual issues which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London. It is an exceptionally effective, practical, body-centred remedy that can get you back into full sexual aliveness.

A lot of women experience problems with arousal.

It is not necessarily something wrong with your body.

Most of the time both men and women are misinformed on what a woman’s body really needs for arousal.

As a result, the woman’s body is treated wrong, she doesn’t connect well to her own body, and you get low engagement – problems with arousal.

– your body is not touched well enough
– your body is not engaged enough by the contact
– your body is treated too mechanically to engage
– the sequence is wrong (e.g. straight for the genitals)
– your genitals are touched in the wrong way
– you feel no connection or heart from your partner
– you can’t get out of your own head to connect
– you struggle to enjoy your own sensations
– you struggle to create relaxed and positive mental space
– you struggle to create emotional connection to your partner

All these shortcomings will come together into an overall block in your arousal.

However as you can see hey are just techniques / abilities that can be developed and improved.

I have provided sex therapy for many women on improving their problems with arousal. I’ve generally had considerable success with clients of this kind.

It’s about forgetting what you know about how you need to get aroused – and learning the right way.

Quite often a woman would have problems with arousal all her life, and is convinced that something is wrong with her body, but when we approach it correctly it turns out that she is fully well sexually.

We can provide sex therapy on problems with arousal in two ways:

Through a tantric massage appointment

Through a consultation appointment

(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)

Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.

How Tantric Massage can help / give treatment to problems with arousal

Learn how your body needs to be treated correctly

The Tantric massage will show you how your body really needs to be treated to create the deepest response and most engaging sexual energy.

You will discover how your body needs to be touched, in what sequence, with what kind of feeling. You will discover how different parts of your body need to be treated specifically, especially the most sexual areas – they each need their unique approach.

This information is very ignorant of female bodies in our culture.

Tantric sexual technique is very different to our mainstream technique and understands the woman’s body much better.

 

Learn how to connect with your body

Your arousal depends on a lot more than just what kind of touch you receive.

it also depends on your mental space, your emotional connection, how you are present in your body, how relaxed you are in your mind, how much you are listening, etc.

You can affect arousal a lot by how you connect to sensations.

I will teach you ho to connect to your body well during the Tantric massage. I will guide you during the massage with my voice. Then you can apply this at home.

Learn the special sequence

A lot about the woman’s arousal is about the journey, the unfolding, the sequence.

It’s important to know in which order your body should be touched, how the sexual energy has to gradually change from relaxing and nurturing to more sexual.

If you understand the general idea you can recreate it at home.

More information on Tantric massage:

For more info read about the full Tantric massage / bodywork for women.

You can also read about healing Yoni massage session I offer in London.

Tantric massage may seem like a very unusual way to treat your problem, maybe even out of your comfort zone.

But if you think logically, it is the most effective.

You can’t just read a book on it. In sexuality what you have in your mind is one thing but in the moment of sex your body just reacts from conditioning, habit, experience.

Working with the body through Tantric massage:
– You learn from real experience in your body – but in a controlled, guided and supportive set up
– Your body receives profound healing from real positive experience
– Your body learns to respond and react better.
– Your body develops sensitivity for arousal
– Your body is awakened with real sexual energy and can keep it up

Working with direct responses of body and mind this is a profound transformation and healing. You become someone different, it’s not just reading or hearing an idea.

I have worked with a lot of clients who couldn’t get aroused in their sex lives. Generally, with a new approach that I teach these clients were able to engage their bodies much better than they ever expected.

How consultations can help you improve you problems with arousal

If getting aroused is your problem, then working directly with the body is by far the most effective option, as the body heals and learns. You need real experience in a supportive and and guided environment.

However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead, in person or by Skype. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.

As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.

FREE INITIAL PHONE CONSULTATION

You don’t need to decide on your own if having a tantric
massage is the right thing for you.
It is not your job.
It is my job as a professional to explain to you how
tantric massage can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
will be useful, safe and comfortable.
As a client, your next step is just to discuss this with me
without making any decisions, and see if this feels right.
There is nothing to lose or to risk – a phone chat is safe and anonymous for you at distance.

Take advantage of my free initial phone consultation