If you find it difficult to get aroused and are looking for a therapy or treatment to help you with problems in arousal, then you can try working with the body to heal sexual issues which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London. It is an exceptionally effective, practical, body-centred remedy that can get you back into full sexual aliveness.
Sex therapy and help with problems with sexual arousal, in London
A lot of women experience problems with arousal.
It is not necessarily something wrong with your body.
Most of the time both men and women are misinformed on what a woman’s body really needs for arousal.
As a result, the woman’s body is treated wrong, she doesn’t connect well to her own body, and you get low engagement – problems with arousal.
– your body is not touched well enough
– your body is not engaged enough by the contact
– your body is treated too mechanically to engage
– the sequence is wrong (e.g. straight for the genitals)
– your genitals are touched in the wrong way
– you feel no connection or heart from your partner
– you can’t get out of your own head to connect
– you struggle to enjoy your own sensations
– you struggle to create relaxed and positive mental space
– you struggle to create emotional connection to your partner
All these shortcomings will come together into an overall block in your arousal.
However as you can see hey are just techniques / abilities that can be developed and improved.
I have been very successful with this alternative to sex therapy with many women who wanted to improve their problems with arousal.
It’s about forgetting what you know about how you need to get aroused – and learning the right way.
Quite often a woman would have problems with arousal all her life, and is convinced that something is wrong with her body, but when we approach it correctly it turns out that she is fully well sexually.
We can work on problems with arousal in two ways:
Through a tantric massage appointment
Through a consultation appointment
(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)
Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.
How Tantric Massage can help with problems with arousal
Learn how your body needs to be treated correctly
The Tantric massage will show you how your body really needs to be treated to create the deepest response and most engaging sexual energy.
You will discover how your body needs to be touched, in what sequence, with what kind of feeling. You will discover how different parts of your body need to be treated specifically, especially the most sexual areas – they each need their unique approach.
This information is very ignorant of female bodies in our culture.
Tantric sexual technique is very different to our mainstream technique and understands the woman’s body much better.
Learn how to connect with your body
Your arousal depends on a lot more than just what kind of touch you receive.
it also depends on your mental space, your emotional connection, how you are present in your body, how relaxed you are in your mind, how much you are listening, etc.
You can affect arousal a lot by how you connect to sensations.
I will teach you ho to connect to your body well during the Tantric massage. I will guide you during the massage with my voice. Then you can apply this at home.
Learn the special sequence
A lot about the woman’s arousal is about the journey, the unfolding, the sequence.
It’s important to know in which order your body should be touched, how the sexual energy has to gradually change from relaxing and nurturing to more sexual.
If you understand the general idea you can recreate it at home.
More information on Tantric massage:
For more info read about the full Tantric massage / bodywork for women.
You can also read about healing Yoni massage session I offer in London.
Tantric massage may seem like a very unusual way to treat your problem, maybe even out of your comfort zone.
But if you think logically, it is the most effective.
You can’t just read a book on it. In sexuality what you have in your mind is one thing but in the moment of sex your body just reacts from conditioning, habit, experience.
Working with the body through Tantric massage:
– You learn from real experience in your body – but in a controlled, guided and supportive set up
– Your body receives profound healing from real positive experience
– Your body learns to respond and react better.
– Your body develops sensitivity for arousal
– Your body is awakened with real sexual energy and can keep it up
Working with direct responses of body and mind this is a profound transformation and healing. You become someone different, it’s not just reading or hearing an idea.
I have worked with a lot of clients who couldn’t get aroused in their sex lives. Generally, with a new approach that I teach these clients were able to engage their bodies much better than they ever expected.
How consultations can help you improve you problems with arousal
If getting aroused is your problem, then working directly with the body is by far the most effective option, as the body heals and learns. You need real experience in a supportive and and guided environment.
However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead, in person or by Skype. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.
As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any healing process it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.
DISCLAIMER
I make it clear that I am not a qualified and accredited sex therapist.
In the UK the formal definition of a sex therapist is that of being a medical professional or a psychotherapist. These therapists are not allowed physical contact with a client.
I have explained why these approaches are limited for many people with sex problems, while they are very helpful for some.
I provide solution and / or improvement through an alternative approach to sex therapy that is explicitly based in the client being touched in a sexual / sensual way as a guided and educational experience. I do not use bodyworks that involve non-sexual touch, nor do I provide talking therapy. I make it clear that it is not accredited as conventional sex therapy.
My approach rests on giving you a safe and supportive environment to learn about a positive sexual approach and receive a healing effect from this journey.
I don’t treat medical conditions or psychological disorders. If you are in need of this kind of treatment, you have to see a qualified professional in those areas.
However, you are welcome to work with me in combination with those professionals to support your work.
FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION
I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether the Tantric massage is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.
I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.
All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.
This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.
Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.
