Sex therapy and healing for sex addiction in women, in London

For sex addiction in women, Tantric Therapy London offers a profound process that works directly with your experience in the body  – you learn a new vision of sex that allows you to create a nourishing, loving, satisfying sexuality without compulsive tendencies

There is nothing wrong with wanting a lot of sex, it’s a natural and positive state of female sexuality.

Sex addiction in women is when you feel that your craving for sex is out of control, creates negativity in your life or is in some way destructive, harmful or damaging.

For example it may interfere with your balanced life, or you may out yourself in harmful situations, or you notice that you use sex as a momentary escape from issues in your life and this behaviour becomes compulsive

On this level sex addiction is primarily an emotional form of addiction, where you use sex as a drug for your emotions, or sex becomes a compulsive way to receive love, validation or self-esteem.

However, sex addiction in women can also be physical / physiological. Some women overdo orgasms – in sex or in masturbation – and the body gets used to the brain chemicals that the orgasms produce, craving them compulsively. In this case sex addiction in women is more of a physical addiction to orgasms.

Sex addiction in women can be maintained through masturbation, sex, or watching porn. It doesn’t make a difference as it tends to be the same pattern.

Quite often seeking for therapy or healing for sex addiction in women in London you will find approaches that are similar to treating other drug addictions. It could be an abstinence programme, habits of self-control, or psychotherapy.

While they may have a short-term effect, in my opinion they often don’t resolve the problem all the way. The issue is that the way you see sex, approach sex and practice it creates a compulsive pattern.

Such therapies and treatments to heal sex addiction don’t change your pattern of having sex, they don’t educate you how to experience sex differently. And since you can’t – and don’t want to – avoid sex for the rest of your life, when you get back to it later you may repeat the same practices and be vulnerable to sex addiction again.

When I help women with sex addiction in my London practice I take a more fundamental approach.

I teach you how to envisage sex and practise it in a way that is balanced, grounded, genuinely nourishing and conscious. It is like a difference between going on a temporary diet and then binging again, or changing your attitude to nutrition so that you enjoy and appreciate healthy eating.

We can work on sex addiction in women in two ways:

Through a tantric massage appointment

Through a consultation appointment

(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)

Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.

How Tantric massage can help with sex addiction in women

Working with your mindset, vision and beliefs

Various forms of sex addiction in women are often grounded in certain ideas, attitudes and beliefs about sex.

These ideas can leave a women vulnerable to sex addiction and compulsive forms of sex.

A big part of our  session before the Tantric massage is a consultation where we discuss your outlook and your patterns.

With the sex addiction female clients I see in London I normally achieve an effective way to get to the harmful believes and attitudes and to change your perspective.

When you review your attitudes and beliefs in a meaningful and relevant to you way, it often has a more profound impact than any technique. You can change a lot of things in your head which will heal sex addiction.

It is all very good to use more conventional sex therapy means to change your mental patterns and attitudes, to heal sex addiction, such as psychotherapy, counselling etc.

However, this is a more generalised approach that may or may not be specific enough or effective in the sexual practice itself. As a specialist in sexuality I can provide a more specific and workable change of sexual attitudes to help treat sex addiction in women.

Teaching you a different quality of sexual energy to heal sex addiction

Women who have sex addiction are usually used to a certain kind of sex / self-sex.

The emphasis tends to be on intense, intoxicating experiences which give you a momentary hit of ‘drug’ but don’t have a true nutritional value for your body, heart and soul. This malnourishment creates craving for more.

I will introduce you to a new quality of sexual energy. You can experience a more nurturing, nourishing, profound sexual experiences that can bring true happiness, contentment, wellbeing and positive energy into your life.

Tantric sexuality offers you this kind of sexual energy – you just need to know how to create it, as a combination of different physical technique and mental and emotional connection in your body.

With a different quality of sexual energy you feel true satiation, rather than a constant craving.

You are able to create sex that feel nourishing for you soul and fills you with love, rather than mistaking a moment of oblivion for love.

Your sexuality than comes into wellbeing and balance.

A Tantric massage is an opportunity for you to experience that quality of sexual energy, understand it, and learn how it is created.

Teaching you to channel sexual energy

The normal pattern that women with sex addiction have is to constantly release your sexual energy through sex.

As you are constantly emptying, the body keeps craving it.

I will teach you Tantric techniques to channel this sexual energy into yourself, to balance it.

This way you are filling yourself up into a deep satiation – but in a balanced way where nothing remains tense, and you also stop this pattern of constant release which becomes compulsive.

More information on Tantric massage:

To understand more read the full guide to how tantric massage for women works.

You can also read about the use of Yoni massage for healing sexual problems.

Tantric massage may seem like a very unusual way to help with sex addiction, maybe even out of your comfort zone.

But if you think logically, it is the most effective.

In sexuality you can read and talk all you want but when the real moment comes your mind and body react instinctively – from their conditioning, habit, experience.

Working with the body through Tantric massage:
– You learn from real experience in your body how your sexuality should feel.
– Your body receives profound healing from direct contact
– Your learns to feel differently, forgetting old patterns
– Your body reconditions to a natural different response
– You gain control over your mind and responses in real practice

Working with direct responses of body and mind this is a profound transformation and healing. You become someone different, it’s not just reading or hearing an idea.

How my consultations can help you deal with sex addiction in women

If a Tantric massage is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with your particular difficulties.

As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any healing process it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.


I make it clear that I am not a qualified and accredited sex therapist.

In the UK the formal definition of a sex therapist is that of being a medical professional or a psychotherapist. These therapists are not allowed physical contact with a client.

I have explained why these approaches are limited for many people with sex problems, while they are very helpful for some.

I provide solution and / or improvement through an alternative approach to sex therapy that is explicitly based in the client being touched in a sexual / sensual way as a guided and educational experience. I do not use bodyworks that involve non-sexual touch, nor do I provide talking therapy. I make it clear that it is not accredited as conventional sex therapy.

My approach rests on giving you a safe and supportive environment to learn about a positive sexual approach and receive a healing effect from this journey.

I don’t treat medical conditions or psychological disorders. If you are in need of this kind of treatment, you have to see a qualified professional in those areas.

However, you are welcome to work with me in combination with those professionals to support your work.


You don’t need to decide on your own if having a tantric
massage is the right thing for you.
It is not your job.
It is my job as a professional to explain to you how
tantric massage can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
will be useful, safe and comfortable.
As a client, your next step is just to discuss this with me
without making any decisions, and see if this feels right.
There is nothing to lose or to risk – a phone chat is safe and anonymous for you at distance.

Take advantage of my free initial phone consultation