Sex therapy and help when you aren’t comfortable receiving in sex, in London

Maybe you are a giver in sex, pleasing your partner, but you are not very good at receiving – you can’t relax and be comfortable to receive in sex. If so, sex therapy for women by Tantric massage, which which I provide in my practice Tantric Therapy London, can be a very effective way to resolve this problem.

Many women feel the discomfort in the balance of giving and receiving in sex. Many women will be eager to please their partners, but then feel uncomfortable in the moment of receiving, unable to relax and receive in sex.

This usually isn’t about your partner – it is about you and your own ability to relax and enjoy sex.

Women have a very common pattern of snapping into the performance mode, concerned about how your partner feels and trying to do it right for him. And in the process you don’t honour your own sexual energy, you don’t connect with it and you escape it. Often, there are also underlying feelings of insecurity, unworthiness, guilt or shame that you escape from into this performance.

I have worked with many women in this situation and a Tantric massage has been an exceptionally powerful and effective remedy to treat this distortion in your sex life.

We can provide sex therapy on this issue in two ways:

Through a tantric massage appointment

Through a consultation appointment

(if tantric massage is out of your comfort zone)

Please call me to discuss your particular issue. There are variations, and I can give you a more specific explanation of your difficulties, and a more specific solution that will work best for you.

How Tantric Massage can help when you are uncomfortable with / aren’t good at receiving in sex

A tantric massage puts you in a situation where you can no longer escape into busy activity and performance.

This experience is completely for you – you relax and receive. You experience how your own body can be loved and nourished with sexual energy.

In this experience, when you can’t escape into performance, you can only go in, within yourself, and start meeting your feelings.

Just by receiving the Tantric massage you learn how to be more comfortable at receiving in sex.

But of course I will also help you and guide you into a mindset where you can receive more easily and more comfortably.

I will teach you Tantric techniques within yourself which will help you to be more present, to listen to your body and connect with your own sexual energy.

Tantric massage is so effective because there is simply no substitute to learning to receive directly through the body, through experience. It is very difficult to understand this intellectually and to create a change by just thinking about it.

Generally I have an exceptionally high success rate with clients who are not comfortable with receiving in sex.

Potentially this is a fairly straightforward problem to treat with a Tantric massage and you will feel improvement immediately.

I focus particularly on long-term change – from this experience I want you to learn how you can create this easy and relaxed state in sex yourself.

More information on Tantric massage:

For more info see Tantric massage for women in London.

You can also read about Yoni healing.

How consultations can help you deal with this problem

There is no substitute to working directly when you struggle to receive. It is the most effective and faster remedy to provide sex therapy for this problem.

However, if this is too much out of your comfort zone, you can choose to have a consultation appointment with me instead, in person or by Skype. I can give advice on what you can do at home on your own to deal with this issue.

As the next step please give me a call to discuss your problem, at no commitment. As with any therapy / treatment it is important to understand your specific situation and which solutions may work for you. I will be able to explain a remedy that would fit you in particular.

FREE INITIAL PHONE CONSULTATION

You don’t need to decide on your own if having a tantric
massage is the right thing for you.
It is not your job.
It is my job as a professional to explain to you how
tantric massage can serve you.
It is my job as a professional to reassure you that this
will be useful, safe and comfortable.
As a client, your next step is just to discuss this with me
without making any decisions, and see if this feels right.
There is nothing to lose or to risk – a phone chat is safe and anonymous for you at distance.

Take advantage of my free initial phone consultation