If you are feeling a need for sexual healing as a woman, you will have many choices, some more clinical, some more alternative. But the most powerful thing to heal you sexually is a direct experience, a bodywork that is designed specifically to give you sexual healing – the genuine Tantric massage with an expert healer (not to be confused with this name being utilised by adult industry).
When we think of sexual healing we think of something different from medical treatment, therapy or analytical psychology.
We think of something whole, soothing, nurturing and empowering. An influence that heals sexuality, its past pains and negative residues. We think of something deeper, heart-felt, a new life in wellbeing and loving relationship with sexuality.
Many women feel the need for sexual healing. It could be due to negative past relationships, difficult sexual episodes, sexual trauma, or just a complicated relationship with sexuality that may come from upbringing or culture.
Sexual healing is about a new experience of your sexuality. A new vision of it as positive, healthy, free and happy. Sexual healing is when you can now experience a new state of wellbeing and happiness in your sexual relationships, when you let go of the past, erase the negative experiences and feel empowered to live your new life.
The most powerful experience of sexual healing is direct experience. You experience your sexuality in a new way that changes how you were before, and you get grounded in this new truth.
This is why it can often be difficult for women to arrive to sexual healing by indirect means – such as talking therapy, general wellbeing therapies, or processing emotions.
The actual experience of sexuality is its own space, its own micro-world. It only marginally gets affected by other healings that can seem related but don’t make enough impact.
It is the positive experience of sexuality itself that heals.
However, such positive and healing direct experience can be hard to find.
Sometimes a woman comes from a negative sexual background – culturally or due to past relationships – and she enters a new relationship. The new partner can be loving and conscious in sex, opening her, leading her somewhere more positive. She lets go, trusts, and discovers a new experience with him. And this is when she feels she is healed sexually.
But this may or may not happen in a woman’s life. And rather than hoping for a man especially versed in healing a woman in a personal relationship, she could look for helping herself by working with a sexual healer.
And one of the most powerful ways to create this sexual healing space in a powerful enough way is the Tantric massage.
You may not have considered this option before, and it may sound way out of your comfort zone. However, if you really wanted to heal your sexuality doing peripheral things for general wellbeing – like alternative therapies etc – may promise an impact on your sexual wellbeing but are not going to be as effective as working with your sexuality directly.
The power of Tantric massage for profound sexual healing is that it is a direct experience of positive and empowered sexual energy, based in techniques and approaches much more advanced that the conventional Western sexuality.
In a Tantric massage you go on an authentic journey into your sexuality, and the sexual healer guides you through it.
You feel in your own body the power of positive sexual energy. You feel how it is nourishing and enriching for your body, heart and soul.
Your body is directly nurtured, nourished and spoken to with loving touch. This is very important because much of your negative memory and reaction about sex is in your body. There is a direct communication that allows your body to let go, relax and awaken to feeling sexual energy in a new and positive way.
This direct experience becomes a nurturing experiences for your heart and your mind. Just like the body, your heart and mind gently let go, relax and discover a new positive experience of sexual energy which dissolves past blocks.
A professional sexual healer creates a space for you where your initial anxieties, reticence and blocks are allowed to be. You don’t need to pretend, push yourself or stress about how well you are doing. It is a direct but gentle process of reassuring your sexual self through layers and layers of positive experiences and new memories in your body.
The sexual healer would also guide you how to engage with yourself, feel yourself and become more grounded in your experience of sexuality.
It is a simple but effective approach to sexual healing because it is so direct. It is a direct process of clearing, reassuring and awakening your sexual body and your sexual self.
Sexual healing through direct experience is an organic process. There is a transformation from the old person to the new, and it feels natural.
Sexual healing is a holistic feeling. You find wellbeing in sex in general, in all expressions and aspects of sex, rather than working on particular problems.
But here are some of the common sex problems that disappear when a woman completes sexual healing through Tantric massage:
– low sexual response
– problems with arousal
– problems with feeling enough in sex
– feeling disconnected in sex
– feeling tense, anxious or fearful of sex or penetration
– feeling self-conscious or in your head
– feeling guilt or shame about sex
– feeling low desire or interest in sex
– difficulties in forming relationships
– having problems in self-esteem or confidence in sex
– feeling pain in sex or sexual blocks
Everyone has their own story so please give me a call and I can explain how the sexual healing can happen for you in particular.
You can also read about booking a Tantric healing massage or the Yoni healing session in my London studio.