Tantric Massage To Improve Your Sex Life

A Tantric massage for women is a bodywork method to help shift your sexuality and your sex life to a different level.

You can move from simply physical stimulation, fun and games to a deeply fulfilling and beautiful sexual journey with your partner, where your sexual energy will feed your deeply with wellbeing, energy and love. And the sex itself becomes so much richer.

I achieve that for my clients in my Tantric Therapy London studio through different methods – consultations, workshops, etc. But a tantric massage is the most powerful method for women.

The combination of professional Tantric massage for women and  Yoni massage therapy is a very effective method to address many kinds of sexual problems and difficulties that a woman can experience. For more information on specific treatment see sex therapy for women

 However, most women even without particularly obvious problems are only experiencing a fraction of what is possible.

Through Tantric bodywork any woman can further enhance and enrich her sex life, however good you think it already is.

  • Do you feel your sex life ends up feeling more superficial than you deserve?
  • Do you feel not enough true connection between you and your partners when you have sex?
  • Do you think you should feel more love during and after lovemaking?
  • Do you feel there is more feeling to discover in your body and soul in lovemaking?
  • Do you feel you hold back from gracefully opening fully your sexuality and love?
  • Would you like more true soulful happiness in sex, not just physical intensity?
  • Does the full beauty, grace and richness of lovemaking feel elusive?
  • Do you feel your relationship has evolved into something deeper, more loving and meaningful, but your lovemaking has not?
Woman looking into the distance, content from tantric massage

Then only Tantric wisdom can take you there.

Conventional sex advice completely can’t help women in those deeper questions.

And a Tantric massage can be a direct experiential way for a woman to learn about those sexual states first hand.

This is how Tantric massage can help you improve your sex life:

Normal sexual technique stays on a superficial level. Many women have a ‘good sex life’ but there is still a feeling that you are not being nourished deeply, or your sex life is not effortless, joyful and natural enough. Maybe you have fun, physical pleasure and adventure but not a complete fulfilment, deep happiness and flourishing love. You may have a vague feeling that more is possible with your lover but you don’t know how to reach it.

  • Make your body more sensitive and feel more.
  • Develop your body to feel new layers and dimensions of sexual sensations.
  • Feel more nourishing and fulfilling quality of sexual energy in each moment.
  • Feel a deep connection and presence with your partner in every moment of sex.
  • Connect your heart to your body in sex.
  • Become emotionally open in your body in sex.
  • Learn to feel love physically in sex – and be nourished by it.
  • Express nurturing love from your body in sex.
  • Become free from mental brakes in sex – self-consciousness, anxieties, being in your head, worry, pressure and insecurity.
  • Discover new sensitivity, sensuality and nourishing sexual energy in the vagina.
  • Open greater sensitivity and richness in your clitoris.
  • Change from the basic release to new, richer and healthier orgasmic experiences that revitalize you.
  • Have whole body sexual experiences.

How Does My Tantric Massage Achieve This For You?

Our meetings include a consultation and a Tantric massage (which would normally also include a Yoni massage – at your choice).

You learn from me about new techniques and approaches from Tantric perspective. You learn how to connect sexually within yourself in a deeper way. You learn how to magnify and direct your sexual experience. You learn how to liberate and empower yourself in each moment. Through the Tantric bodywork you learn how your body works and how your sexual energy works. There is a lot that is completely unknown to you from mainstream sexual knowledge.

Then you have a chance to put all this advice into your experience in my Tantric massage. During the bodywork I create the right space and the right touch to help you experience your body in a different way. I guide you during the massage and help you connect to your body and to the moment, and to direct your sexual energy. You can see how you can empower each moment and craft that sexual energy on your own. It is very much a great learning opportunity.

The other reason why this kind of sensual massage lets you grow and develop in your sexuality is because just by receiving a Tantric bodywork there is a natural change within you. You receive a certain quality of sexual energy which naturally encourages your body and soul to open, to feel and to respond.

By receiving Tantric massages your body becomes reconditioned, it opens and develops. Your presence and your heart grow stronger, and you become more confident about yourself from gaining this experience. Old and limiting patterns are changed, you gain more freedom, natural comfort and aliveness.

This is a natural result from the direct influence that a woman gets in a Tantric massage – the right touch and the right energy.

As you go through this process you also gain insight and advice from me, on how to create this kind of Tantric sexual energy in your relationships.

Woman with light shining on her, bliss from a tantric massage in london

What Does a Woman Want From Making Love?

Many women take their answers from misleading sensationalist media or social myths, without ever questioning them. Many women think they know what they want: more intense orgasms, interesting passions, losing control.

They may even find these things but still… happiness is not quite there, or it doesn’t last. Some keep looking their whole life, unaware that they will be disappointed.

Many women focus on mechanical stimulation, fun passions and variety covered in sex manuals.
But they dream of something else – thinking that those dreams are just unrealistic. 
And while the pleasure is received, deep down women often feel disconnected, alone, like bodies are being selfishly used in a form of enhanced masturbation – calling it “giving pleasure to each other” – and you are rented out to be someone’s toy, game and drug.

Over time the emptiness in sex can become undeniable. Couples revolve around the same superficial chase of a moment of excitement and a basic pleasure reflex. For the sake of what?

When that moment of pleasure has faded, you may feel the luxury of release or the tick on your list of achievements, but your man is cold, your deeper happiness hasn’t been touched, your soul hasn’t flourished, your body gets weary of this hard work and your sexual connection with your partner begins to decay (read here about sex that destroys relationships).

More is Possible

Sex can feed a woman with powerful love, through sex she can discover the deepest connection and merging with her partner. Your love for your partner is fed by sex, sex keeps love alive.

There is a whole world of flourishing beauty inside you, beyond what limited normal sex has showed you so far. You can go to so many more places, dimensions, experiences – in body, heart and soul.

Sexual energy can make you flourish and come alive. This sunshine can rejuvenate your body and soul daily. Tantric lovemaking can be source of joy, energy and power. Lovemaking could become a place both look forward to daily, to charge up and be together in this revitalising garden.

But modern sex science and manuals will not take women further than mechanical stimulation of nerves and mind games.

Only the wisdom of Tantric sex has the right understanding.


To make a booking for a Tantric massage for women in my London studio please see the information on the session, prices and contacting me.

I also recommend that you take advantage of the free phone consultation to help you with this decision.


It’s hard to decide it all on your own – because you don’t know much about this. I can help you from my experience.

If you are not sure it’s ok – you can just discuss it with me.

Please email and tell me about your reasons for wanting to see me, what you need help with. I will be happy to tell you whether I can help.

If it is something I can help with, we can set up a phone chat to discuss more in detail. I can explain to you more how my sessions would work in your case and we can discuss reassurances, safety and comfort for you.

This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.

Remember that you can also start with online consultations, which really helps.

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