Many women take their answers from misleading sensationalist media or social myths, without ever questioning them. Many women think they know what they want: more intense orgasms, interesting passions, losing control.
They may even find these things but still… happiness is not quite there, or it doesn’t last. Some keep looking their whole life, unaware that they will be disappointed.
Many women focus on mechanical stimulation, fun passions and variety covered in sex manuals.
But they dream of something else – thinking that those dreams are just unrealistic.
And while the pleasure is received, deep down women often feel disconnected, alone, like bodies are being selfishly used in a form of enhanced masturbation – calling it “giving pleasure to each other” – and you are rented out to be someone’s toy, game and drug.
Over time the emptiness in sex can become undeniable. Couples revolve around the same superficial chase of a moment of excitement and a basic pleasure reflex. For the sake of what?
When that moment of pleasure has faded, you may feel the luxury of release or the tick on your list of achievements, but your man is cold, your deeper happiness hasn’t been touched, your soul hasn’t flourished, your body gets weary of this hard work and your sexual connection with your partner begins to decay (read here about sex that destroys relationships).
More is Possible
Sex can feed a woman with powerful love, through sex she can discover the deepest connection and merging with her partner. Your love for your partner is fed by sex, sex keeps love alive.
There is a whole world of flourishing beauty inside you, beyond what limited normal sex has showed you so far. You can go to so many more places, dimensions, experiences – in body, heart and soul.
Sexual energy can make you flourish and come alive. This sunshine can rejuvenate your body and soul daily. Tantric lovemaking can be source of joy, energy and power. Lovemaking could become a place both look forward to daily, to charge up and be together in this revitalising garden.
But modern sex science and manuals will not take women further than mechanical stimulation of nerves and mind games.
Only the wisdom of Tantric sex has the right understanding.