– To Talk About Real Sex. Some couples wonder if Tantric sex feels like some weird practice that doesn’t feel sexual – and it might, if you learn from the wrong places.
I won’t teach you some imaginary spirit sex in a lotus position. You want to feel pleasure, desire, love, connection, beauty, fun, creativity. You don’t want to be channeling energy and convince yourself it feels like making love. You want sex feels that feels like sex, but better and richer.
– To Accept Where You Are Now. Some couples may see Tantric sex as a complete overhaul into some unachievable advanced skill.
I’m not going to give you a perfected vision, miles away from what you can relate to right now. As an experienced Tantric sex teacher and sex coach, I understand the reality of desires, habits and tastes in the bedroom. I want you to gradually enhance what you already enjoy and try some new things, not to commit to something too alien and give up on all you had before.
– To Respect You Like A Variety Of Things.
Some couples may worry that Tantric sex means you can’t any longer do what you’ve enjoyed before.
Tantric lovemaking will be for one day, something else for another. It is just to add more variety in your life and enjoy more through these principles.
– I Want You To Learn Through Making Love, Not Through Exercises. No one has time for exercises, and in sex you achieve nothing through exercises.
Learn while you enjoy, while you love, discover more and explore in that moment, when everything is alive. That’s the only way it will happen. Who has time for meditating and circulating your energy for an hour daily just to have a better love life? All I teach you about Tantric sex is for you to do in bed, not outside it.
– To Personalise It For You.
This is not a lecture for you to take it or leave it. It is an individual sex coaching session so I will help you find how you can fit it into your sex life in a way that suits you personally best. And if there are any difficulties in your love life right now, we will address them specifically.
– To Give You Enough to Discover More Through Lovemaking Itself, Today. Some couples are concerned that a tantric workshop is a 7-stage programme drawn out over 2 years.
What good is it if you learn bits and pieces about Tantric sex until one day you know enough to try the Tantric approach. In the workshop I only have time to teach you the basics, but those basics will let you go and enjoy a different whole session of love-making, and if you carry on you will discover more with time. If you can’t make sex out of what you’ve learned, you won’t go on.
– To Speak Your Language – This kind of lovemaking is for everyone.
Not just for followers of any particular spiritual tradition. If you can relate to energy, we will talk about that. If you can relate to the nervous system, this is how we will do it. Tantric approach is just common sense principles and I can teach them to you in your language.
– No Spiritual Beliefs Required.
Your beliefs are your choice, and I respect that. I am just a Tantric sex teacher and a sex coach, not a spiritual guru. You don’t need to create a system of beliefs to understand these ideas. It is just a more fulfilling lovemaking with more common sense understanding that is often hidden from us through false beliefs.