Why Men Don’t Like / Avoid The Missionary Position?

nd why women like it and prefer it?

 

It isn’t that men don’t like the missionary position. Many men do. And it isn’t that women always opt for a missionary position. Many women enjoy a variety of sexual positions.

 

However, there is a very familiar and instantly recognizable scenario: the man starts with an intention to take a woman from behind, maybe even goes some way like that, then the woman attempts to turn around to face him in the missionary position, to somewhat of his disappointment which he may or may not express.

 

What is it for a woman? Women may want to just have fun sometimes, but often it is very important for them to feel sex as lovemaking, where they enjoy not just pleasure but an emotional connection and sharing love with a man. Naturally, it is difficult to do that being turned away. Lovers also have many other ways in which a missionary position helps them to be intimate in sex. Likewise, a woman often doesn’t like feeling that her man is avoiding it or forgetting about it, and she is just a good-looking object for him to stimulate his body with.

 

For men often sex tends to be more towards the fun, adventure, and exciting stimulation of it. Other sexual positions may feel physically more intense, or he may enjoy the woman visually more, or be get off on a psychological stimulation, such as being in a dominating position. Many men find it difficult to be excited when there is a focus on intimacy. Some may be actively avoiding it because they either don’t know how to have that kind of sex for the woman’s best pleasure, or they feel uncomfortable with expressing themselves that way.

 

Another major difference is that a woman enjoys sex much more if her whole body feels pleasure for the man, while men are fine as long as there is pleasure in the penis. Obviously, the missionary position offers a lot more whole body contact and caressing to the woman than most other sexual positions.

 

Men actually have a lot to get out of learning how to enjoy the missionary position more. By learning how to bring other energies of sex into their body through creativity, intimacy, love, not just genital pleasure, they can themselves end up feeling much better and enjoy their relationships much more. It isn’t just to please the woman, but it is an acquired taste for men. It will be well worth their while to explore some of the ideas of Tantric sex which naturally leads to a lot of time for the missionary position.

 

Women, on the other hand, also shouldn’t take it too strictly and understand that while a man may enjoy sex in the missionary position, he will always have a taste for other sexual positions and those are also his ways of enjoy his woman.

 

Normally a natural balance is achieved. If the woman is loved in the missionary position enough of the time, she happily enjoys other sexual positions too. It is when that intimacy is largely cut off always that it becomes a problem for the woman.

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