A Tantric massage can help women deal with low sexual confidence due to the way they look – or rather the way they perceive they look. The healing Tantric massage I perform for female clients in London offers a new way to connect with yourself that may take off the pressure and help you to become a sexually confident woman.
Many women suffer from a low sexual self-esteem and a lack of sexual confidence based on their looks. It is not so much the matter of objective looks, as even very good looking women often have conflicts with some part of their body and can not totally relax in sex because of it.
It is more a matter of how much women allow these thoughts to control their enjoyment of sex.
Of course, if there is something one can do about her looks and it is feasible, there is nothing wrong with making an effort to look attractive for each other, and it should be encouraged. However, at the moment of sexual contact there is nothing that can be done one way or the other, and at that point it is just a compulsive worry, a noise in the head that is not constructive and doesn’t allow either of the partners enjoy sex.
A Tantric massage leads to a greater sexual confidence in the moment because it teaches a woman to be more mindful in her body, more connected, more away from her head, and that allows her to be more present in the moment and to gain more sexual confidence and sexual self-esteem.
The specific sessions of the Yoni massage I offer in London also cultivate an attitude where you learn to feel and appreciate the inner beauty of sexual feelings and sensations, rather than to expect to be only visually aroused. Everyone has that beauty inside and when women develop that way of seeing themselves they gain sexual confidence.
A Tantric massage also opens sexual energy to a woman as her source, as an empowering positive force that she charges up with and stays with her for some time. This sexual energy, when alive in a woman’s body, brings new expression, new creativity, new confidence in interaction with men. Just being alive with it is a step in itself towards feeling more sexual and hence more sexually confident as a woman.
Altogether, with your partner you make a shift from just getting interested and aroused as the object, to being together – creating a good quality sexual energy within to appreciate a meaningful and nourishing connection between partners. The beauty of sex becomes less placed in just the visual / superficial and more in its essence of a positive vibration that feeds our love.