Yoni Massage For Women in London

This is a genuine Tantric Yoni massage in London.

I have been working with Yoni massages for 20 years as Tantric sex coach and as an  alternative to conventional sex therapy, specialising in Tantric female sexuality.

My practice Tantric Therapy London , opened in 2002, is one of the oldest established practices in London and UK, dedicated to authentic Tantric and Yoni massage therapy.

My Yoni massage sessions are a genuine sexological bodywork to develop and / or heal your sexuality – with no relation to adult services.

With me you will work with an expert in sexuality with 20 years of experience.

I have extensive experience and a tested method for working with all of the female sexual problems (see detail below)

For some women it is not about ‘problems’ – I also specialise in helping you discover and embody far richer sexuality in your life. (see more below)

Safe, Comfortable, Expert
As an experienced professional I create a safe and nurturing space where you are also expertly guided through a comfortable and effective process made uniquely for you.

Please let me explain below in detail about my Yoni massage sessions for women.

And also please view my articles, appearances in the media and reviews from clients. (See About Me page)

Do you want

to take sex from superficial to more loving, more soulful, more profound, more connected and more nourishing?

Do you want

to open your sexual energies fully?

Do you know

deep down that sex is more – more richness, more beauty, more sensuality, more journey?

Do you know

deep down that sexual energy is really important for your life and your wellbeing?

Then you are my ideal client, and I can help you find it.

What Is a Yoni Massage

Understandably you have seen online a lot of confusing information on this therapy for the vagina, and many very dubious offers of a vagina massage, so let me explain to you about the genuine and professional Yoni massage therapy.

The Yoni massage is only one part of a full body Tantric massage for women.

The Tantric massage is the whole body sexual bodywork, a beautiful guided journey through all your sexual energies to help you discover your sexuality, connect with it, develop it or get some healing in it.

Please read this page on full Tantric bodywork as this is what you are actually looking for.

The Yoni massage is the part of the Tantric massage where you work specifically on the vagina.

It is a special Tantric technique inside the vagina:

  • it has a healing effect
  • it awakens your vagina in deeper dimensions than the usual stimulation
  • it creates a special nourishing and expansive sexual energy in the vagina
  • it connects you to your vagina physically, emotionally and spiritually

The Yoni massage also teaches you how to connect more with your body and enhance your own sexual energy within the vagina.

Through combining all these techniques, you achieve a certain flourishing of sexual energy in the vagina. That quality of sexual energy heals your vagina, empowers it, and feeds your whole being with profound nourishment.

And through this experience you learn how to create that special sexual energy on your own in your sex life to continue this flourishing.

You can’t do a Yoni massage on its own – it is not comfortable, not effective and not useful (see further down the page). This technique can be done only as a part of the full body Tantric massage that activates you whole body first.

Benefits Of The Yoni Massage


  • You can connect much more with your Yoni
  • You can develop more sensitivity in the Yoni
  • You can learn to feel richer sexual energy in the Yoni during sex
  • You can create a more nourishing and heart-connected sexual energy in the Yoni
  • You can expand the range of orgasmic experiences within your Yoni
  • You can discover new kinds of sexual experiences inside the Yoni
  • You can experience greater connection and love with your partner inside the Yoni during sex
  • You can turn the sexual energy in the Yoni to nourish your whole being emotionally and spiritually
  • You can unblock and empower your whole sexual energy via the Yoni


  • You can regain shut down sensation in the Yoni
  • You can treat vaginal pains and discomfort during sex
  • You can release psychological tension and anxiety in the Yoni
  • You can heal past trauma and sexual abuse in the Yoni
  • You can heal emotional blocks and emotional scars in the Yoni


Yoni massage therapy (in combination with Tantric massage for women) is a very powerful body-based therapeutic method to help you recover from problems and difficulties in sex.

Over the last 20 years I have worked with thousands of women with very diverse sexual problems.

I have extensive experience with using Yoni massage and Tantric massage for all of these issues:

  • Fear and anxiety during sex
  • Tension during sex
  • Pain and discomfort during sex
  • Vaginismus (contraction)
  • Feeling disconnected in sex
  • Numbness in the vagina
  • Difficulty with getting aroused
  • Problems with orgasms
  • Sexual trauma
  • Sexual abuse
  • Recovering from sexual assault
  • Not much enjoyment in sex
  • Feeling blocked in sex
  • Sex addiction
  • Self-destructive sex
  • Low sexual desire / low interest in sex
  • No experience in sex
  • Shame and guilt in sex
  • Being too much in your head during sex
  • Focusing too much on pleasing your partner
  • Performing in sex
  • Being uncomfortable to receive
  • Self-consciousness in sex
  • Insecurity and lack of confidence in sex
  • Body confidence issues

Please get in touch to discuss your issue and I will explain how we can work with it.

You can read more in detail on how I work with each of these problems on this page:

Yoni Massage Must Be A Part Of Tantric Massage

You may first hear about Yoni massage therapy, and you may think that you are looking specifically for a massage of the vagina.

You’re not. You are looking for a Tantric massage with Yoni massage included. Don’t accept offers that suggest an isolated vaginal / Yoni massage for you.

The vagina is a very delicate and reactive place. It has to be approached very carefully, to make sure it is a positive and enriching experience and not a weird and intrusive one.

The Yoni massage can only be performed when the whole woman’s body has become more alive, awakened, aroused, vibrant and open. Your whole body coming alive has a big impact on how open your Yoni will feel for the massage, and what will you get out of it in the end.

This is why a full body Tantric massage is essential – it awakens your entire sexual energy. A bit of relaxation massage won’t do either – you need to receive a genuine Tantric massage that will create a special state of sexual energy in your whole body for the Yoni work.

As a woman, you also need to relax, let your guard down, get into your body, connect deeply with this whole experience before you can let someone touch you inside.

There is nothing worse for a woman than being touched inside when you are not fully into it, open to it, or struggling to connect with it. This would be not just unpleasant but potentially a traumatic experience, so don’t expose yourself to that.

It is essential that you can reach that deep relaxed and open sexual place before a Yoni massage starts.

A Yoni massage can’t feel like a procedure done to you. It has to be an experience, where you are present mentally, emotionally, sensually, with your whole body. There is a process for a woman that you can’t skip.



How Yoni Massage Is Performed

A Yoni massage is not a medical procedure.

It is an experience to take you into a more profound and beautiful state of sexual energy in your Yoni, and to teach you to create it.

If you have any kind of trauma or need healing, the healing will happen with the sunshine of this positive energy.

You may read sometimes that Yoni massages can be painful and how that’s a good thing. But in reality nothing needs to be painful in Yoni massages. You heal by being careful and gently creating positive energy and positive connection which allows your Yoni to relax, open and become more sensitive in this relaxation.

Forcing your Yoni through pain into some sort of success is not my style and I’ve never seen the need for that. The Yoni massage works perfectly fine as a kind and loving treatment, and delivers excellent results.

The Yoni massage is performed only after you are more relaxed and awakened by the full body sensual Tantric massage.

If you are not ready for a Yoni massage, you can always have one session of only the Tantric massage without anything internal first.

It is very important that you always feel fully ready and in control. We will agree on your boundaries, consent and communication.

I am here completely for you to make you feel safe, comfortable and nurtured in your sexuality.

The Yoni massage involves special Tantric touch internally.

It starts with profoundly loving, soothing and nourishing, while I guide you how to connect with your Yoni deeply and go into a deep relaxed healing state of mind.

The touch may progress in different directions – it may go more deeply loving, or connecting, or more intense.

This depends on your process and I create a unique approach for each client, working with what you need from this experience.

You will never be treated in some repetitive, mechanical, forceful manner like most of the Yoni massages out there.

While we are doing the Yoni massage I also help you to channel your sexual energy to a whole body experience, and we continue involving the whole body into the bodywork, creating an interaction between the Yoni, the heart and the body.

Depending on the issue we are working on, we will be guiding this sexual energy in a particular direction and intensity – this is customised for each client.


About Me

Hello, I am Alexey

I have been in service to women for the last 20 years, with my deeply heart-felt desire to help you be well, happy and healed in your sexuality. I brings me a lot of joy to be of help.

This has been my life’s work. I opened my practice Tantric Therapy in London in 2002, and since then I have worked wit thousands of clients on helping them to heal or to grow in their sex life.

I got into this work via my own spiritual journey and my own deep connection with sexuality. I initially explored all the alternative Tantric and taoist practices, and I found intuitive sexual healing abilities in my own personal relationships. I then trained to work with Tantric and Taoist sexuality as a professional. The last 20 years have been my extensive practical research in my practice with my clients on the best methods to heal and empower your sexuality.

I have worked with all kinds of clients, on all manners of difficulties, and I would really love to help you too. Please get in touch for an informal chat and we can discuss how I can help you. 

You can read a lot more in detail about me on the page About Me.

But here is a welcome video from me:


Book Yoni Massage For Women in London

As mentioned, a Yoni massage is a part of a full Tantric bodywork for women.

To book, you don’t need to make your decision now. I understand that for many people it is a big step and you may be anxious. Please get in touch and tell me what is happening for you and we can discuss how I can help and I will send you more info on how I work. If I am able to help and you are happy with the way I work I will also be happy to set up a chat on the phone, all this before you decide whether you want to book an appointment or not.


Tantric Massage – £240

This is a 3-hour appointment split 50/50 between bodywork and talking

(See below what is included in the session)

So this is a rate of £80 per hour – which is the most affordable rate you’ll find.

I look after my clients and do careful and professional work at a level of an experienced sexuality expert. My prices reflect my expertise. A direct sexuality bodywork is a vulnerable place and it is not something I would advise you to select mainly on the basis of the ‘cheapest’.

The full appointment is 3 hours and contains:
1h20 min Tantric massage +1.5h of talk time
(plus complimentary 20 min initial phone call)

Length of the tantric massage:
The massage has to be this length for the full experience, so that you can go through all the phases and access your sexual energy fully, and for us to do the work that you need. It will also include the Yoni massage.

Length of the talk time:

This is essential for me to understand your situation and what unique approach you need, and to explain to you about the massage, how to connect with it, how to get the most from it, boundaries, safety, etc. The discussion will also involve some explanation and practical coaching on Tantric sexuality. And some time is needed to process your experience after it. Our talk time also helps you to relax and be more at ease for the massage.

All of this is essential for you to have a good and productive experience and to achieve your aims.

It is generally impossible to do a genuine Tantric bodywork for you in less time so please ignore such offers.

In effect, the cost is not just for the Tantric massage but for a multi-approach workshop for your sexuality – of which the bodywork is a part – where you will receive comprehensive input on how to improve your sex life.

Included in it is also the 30 minute phone call before you book the appointment – to talk through your aims and your situation.

To book, you don’t need to make your decision now. I understand that for many people it is a big step and you may be anxious. Please get in touch and tell me what is happening for you and we can discuss how I can help and I will send you more info on how I work. If I am able to help and you are happy with the way I work I will also be happy to set up a chat on the phone, all this before you decide whether you want to book an appointment or not.

Why Every Woman Needs A Yoni Massage

There are very few women who will not benefit from Yoni massages, even if you have a good sex life.

Women normally learn only the basic mechanical technique in vaginal stimulation. Women don’t learn how to connect fully with mind and heart inside the Yoni and they don’t learn the more intricate technique for physical sensation inside. This knowledge is unavailable in the mainstream media and general experience of sex in a woman’s life.

So women start off already with a Yoni that feels far from its full potential. Then the Yoni is further desensitized through sex – because most normal sexual technique is conceived for male pleasure rather than for female. Normal penetrative sex goes completely against how the vagina really works, but it works perfectly for the penis. This kind of sex is too fast, too mechanical and too disconnected.

As a result the Yoni builds up lack of sensitivity and negative response which you feel as a block. If there have been any negative sexual relationships, or sexual abuse, then the Yoni absorbs even more trauma.

Most women by default have an unrealised potential in the Yoni, which then becomes further blocked through a normal, or a negative, sex life.

Almost all women experience some restrictions in their vaginal experience – they are less sensitive, less orgasmic and more tense than they could be.

For some it is worse – pain in intercourse, total lack of sensitivity, lack of vaginal orgasmicity, extreme anxiety. For many women this has a hugely debilitating effect on their confidence as a woman, and on their relationships with their partners.

All women can benefit from discovering their full potential through Yoni massages.

Yoni massage a special Tantric vaginal massage

Choosing The Right Yoni Massage

You can find different interpretations and offers of Yoni massages. For something so delicate and sensitive of course it is important for you to choose a genuine and effective one. Here are some opinions I don’t subscribe to:

Yoni massage as adult service

Not everyone who says ‘Yoni massage’ is a genuine professional. Often, this term can now be used to offer an adult massage with vaginal stimulation, as a sex service, for some sort of sexy experience.

Often, an offer like that may even talk of healing or spirituality to ‘be on the level’ to pose as a Yoni massage, but it should usually be obvious to you whether the person is a teacher / therapist or a sex worker. A genuine Yoni massage is not just a different word for general vaginal stimulation. It is a very specific experience, done by an expert, that takes you to a different level of healing or growth in sexuality.

Yoni as medical massage of the vaginal muscles to improve their health

Sometimes you can see Yoni massages explained as rubbing the vagina in the same way you would do the muscles of the back. The theory is that buy improving blood flow, lymph flow, elasticity, etc, you will improve the woman’s sexual experience. Supposedly emotional trauma is physically stored in the vaginal walls and makes them hardened or less sensitive.

Mechanical rubbing of the vagina is not going to bring a lot of result and this is not a gateway to female sexuality and sexual vitality. If anything, the vagina is a very sensual place that is likely to shut down to mechanical treatment.

Such perspective also makes you into a passive patient who may feel a short-terms increase in purely physical sensation due to more blood flow, but no real shift in your sense of lovemaking, relationship and self as a vibrant woman.

In our world it is hard to be honest that your healing will come from positive experiences of enjoyment, so many therapists feel almost pushed to describe the therapy in anatomical / medical terms. But if this is done in practice, you will of course not get far being treated like that.

Any trauma, shut down and lack of feeling in the vagina is not a physical build up. ‘Block’ is a metaphor. Rubbing physical tissues won’t resolve anything. It is about learning a new response, new presence, new emotional connection, new sensitivity inside your vagina. It’s about learning how the vagina needs to be touched, treated, interacted with. It’s about you letting go, opening and connecting – and discovering a true sexual experience in your Yoni.

I have extensive experience and I’ve seen no evidence that trauma is deposited as a physical deposit in tissues and needs ‘breaking down’. I’ve worked with lots of women with extensive trauma who had a perfectly fine and sensitive vaginal experience during sex. I’ve also worked with a lot of women with no trauma who struggled to feel their vagina.

Yoni massage as a Goddess ritual

Sometimes Yoni massage is basically vaginal stimulation but performed by a very devoted practitioner as a sacred ritual. It may have a psychological feel-good effect of being honoured and respected, but it is also important to ensure that the touch itself is not just standard stimulation but is able to create a truly different experience of your sexual energy, on the Tantric level.

If you are introduced to a genuine Tantric technique that gives you a genuine Tantric experience that develops you as a woman, then there is also no need in religious ritual, as this is not relevant to your real relationships.

To sum up, when choosing a Yoni massage you need to look for certain pointers:

Will it be something beyond just being stimulated?

A common problem is that you are promised a lot but the Yoni massage is just the typical stimulation you have received all your life. You don’t need to pay for that. You need to ensure when selecting a therapist that they seem to know something extra to the conventional sexual technique – and so they can give you a new experience that helps to heal or to learn.

Is the Yoni massage performed by a sexuality expert or a masseur?

A genuine Yoni massage can only be performed by an expert in female sexuality. The vagina is a very interconnected piece in the woman’s sexuality and it takes full knowledge of female sexuality to approach it correctly. If someone doesn’t have extensive experience in working with a full range of sexual responses, situations, and problems in women then they can’t approach a Yoni massage with an unknown client safely and correctly.

Book Yoni Massage For Women in London

As mentioned, a Yoni massage is a part of a full Tantric bodywork for women, so please go ahead and book a Tantric massage in my London studio. I understand that for many women this would be a big step and you may be anxious. Please see below the steps you could take to discuss it with me at no commitment.


I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether the Tantric massage is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.

I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.

All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.

This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.

Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.

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