tantric sex teaching in London
Tantric massage for women in london
I perform real tantric Yoni massage in London. I have specialised in female sexuality as a sex coach an alternative sex therapist for the last 20 years.
My practice Tantric Therapy is one of the oldest established practices in London and UK dedicated to authentic Yoni massage therapy for women.
I perform Yoni massages as a genuine method for developing your sexual experience to greater levels, or for sexual healing. No relation to adult services.
Most women who are looking for a Yoni massage are actually looking for a Tantric massage. The Tantric massage is the full body sexual bodywork that helps you connect, or heal, or develop in your sexuality. The Yoni massage is just a part of the full Tantric massage for women – the part that focuses on the vaginal massage specifically. Please read this page on full Tantric bodywork and see if this is what you actually wanted?
So you went looking for this kind of massage in London because you read or heard that a physical therapy for vagina exists and it can help you heal trauma, heal sexuality or improve your sex life.
Sounds interesting and helpful, but on the way you saw all sorts of things. You may be confused by different interpretations, you may find explanations far-fetched or not credible, and you are now aware that you’ll have to filter out adult services talking of Yoni massage as if they were genuine sex therapists. Also, at first glance, a Yoni massage can seem to you psychologically uncomfortable.
Please let me explain the truths and untruths about the Yoni massage. Then you will know exactly how it works and why it is useful for you to do something so unusual – and you will see that it can be a wonderfully positive and comfortable experience for you.
First things first – you never get a Yoni massage on its own (if the practitioner knows anything about women).
A Yoni massage must always be a part of a Tantric massage, it’s not a separate massage.
A Tantric massage is the whole experience – a progressive journey through your whole sexual body and different stages of sexual energy.
The Yoni massage is a part of this experience, where you focus on the vagina specifically. For example, you could receive 1.5 hours of Tantric massage, of which the last 30 minutes will be the Yoni massage.
You can’t do the Yoni massage directly on the vagina without the whole Tantric massage. It is not comfortable, not effective and not useful. I explain this in detail later.
A Yoni massage is a Tantric technique specifically inside the vagina.
It is not so much a massage as a Tantric experience.
It is a combination of:
– a special Tantric touch and technique from the practitioner
– your own special mental and emotional connection to your Yoni.
Yoni massage uses a special healing and empowering touch inside the vagina. It is not just any touching of the vagina, it is a special Tantric technique:
– it has a healing effect
– it awakens your vagina in deeper dimensions than unusual stimulation
– it creates a special nourishing and expansive sexual energy in the vagina
– it connects you to your vagina physically, emotionally and spiritually
However, this is not enough.
Your body is not a machine, so a Yoni massage is not just about receiving the right touch.
You need to learn how to deeply connect with your Yoni. Every woman needs to learn this conscious connection. Then you greatly enhance your flow of sexual energy in the vagina.
Most women don’t know these techniques. An essential part of any Yoni massage is that your guide leads you and teaches you to connect this way.
As a result of combining all these techniques, in the Yoni massage you achieve a certain flourishing of sexual energy in the vagina. That quality of sexual energy heals your vagina, empowers it, and feeds your whole being with profound nourishment.
However, the purpose of the Yoni massage is not just for you to get an interesting experience in my studio, but also to learn how to create that special sexual energy at home, so that you can continue this unfolding.
It is best not think of the Yoni massage as therapy because this puts you into a passive mindset. It is about empowering your own ability.
Think of it as a lesson in how to create the most rich, fulfilling, nourishing and loving sexual energy in your vagina.
The healing / therapy will naturally happen through this empowerment.
FOR WOMEN WHO ARE NOT EXPERIENCING PROBLEMS IN SEX:
FOR WOMEN WHO DO EXPERIENCE PROBLEMS IN SEX:
ALL OF THE ABOVE, PLUS:
Of course, the Yoni massage is not magic – it’s a method.
It will vary from person to person what is possible to experience. Also, while for some people the effect can be immediate, for others it may be a process.
You don’t simply receive a positive effect from the Yoni massage session, you also learn how to create this greater experience consistently in sex with your partners.
Of course, the reason Yoni massage therapy is good for you is because these effects will have a more profound impact than just what you feel inside during sex. It will release into you the healing and nourishing energy that will positively affect your wellbeing and confidence as a woman in daily life and in your relationships.
There are very few women who will not benefit from Yoni massages, even if you have a good sex life.
Women normally learn only the basic mechanical technique in vaginal stimulation. Women don’t learn how to connect fully with mind and heart inside the Yoni and they don’t learn the more intricate technique for physical sensation inside. This knowledge is unavailable in the mainstream media and general experience of sex in a woman’s life.
So women start off already with a Yoni that feels far from its full potential. Then the Yoni is further desensitized through sex – because most normal sexual technique is conceived for male pleasure rather than for female. Normal penetrative sex goes completely against how the vagina really works, but it works perfectly for the penis. This kind of sex is too fast, too mechanical and too disconnected.
As a result the Yoni builds up lack of sensitivity and negative response which you feel as a block. If there have been any negative sexual relationships, or sexual abuse, then the Yoni absorbs even more trauma.
Most women by default have an unrealised potential in the Yoni, which then becomes further blocked through a normal, or a negative, sex life.
Almost all women experience some restrictions in their vaginal experience – they are less sensitive, less orgasmic and more tense than they could be.
For some it is worse – pain in intercourse, total lack of sensitivity, lack of vaginal orgasmicity, extreme anxiety. For many women this has a hugely debilitating effect on their confidence as a woman, and on their relationships with their partners.
All women can benefit from discovering their full potential through Yoni massages.
You may first hear about Yoni massage therapy, and you may think that you are looking specifically for a massage of the vagina.
You’re not. You are looking for a Tantric massage with Yoni massage included. Don’t accept offers that suggest an isolated vaginal / Yoni massage for you.
The vagina is a very delicate and reactive place. It has to be approached very carefully, to make sure it is a positive and enriching experience and not a weird and intrusive one.
The Yoni massage can only be performed when the whole woman’s body has become more alive, awakened, aroused, vibrant and open. Your whole body coming alive has a big impact on how open your Yoni will feel for the massage, and what will you get out of it in the end.
This is why a full body Tantric massage is essential – it awakens your entire sexual energy. A bit of relaxation massage won’t do either – you need to receive a genuine Tantric massage that will create a special state of sexual energy in your whole body for the Yoni work.
As a woman, you also need to relax, let your guard down, get into your body, connect deeply with this whole experience before you can let someone touch you inside.
There is nothing worse for a woman than being touched inside when you are not fully into it, open to it, or struggling to connect with it. This would be not just unpleasant but potentially a traumatic experience, so don’t expose yourself to that.
It is essential that you can reach that deep relaxed and open sexual place before a Yoni massage starts.
A Yoni massage can’t feel like a procedure done to you. It has to be an experience, where you are present mentally, emotionally, sensually, with your whole body. There is a process for a woman that you can’t skip.
Are you set on receiving a Tantric massage only from a female?
A Yoni massage is not a medical procedure.
It is an experience to take you into a more profound and beautiful state of sexual energy in your Yoni, and to teach you to create it.
If you have any kind of trauma or need healing, the healing will happen with the sunshine of this positive energy.
You may read sometimes that Yoni massages can be painful and how that’s a good thing. But in reality nothing needs to be painful in Yoni massages. You heal by being careful and gently creating positive energy and positive connection which allows your Yoni to relax, open and become more sensitive in this relaxation.
Forcing your Yoni through pain into some sort of success is not my style and I’ve never seen the need for that. The Yoni massage works perfectly fine as a kind and loving treatment, and delivers excellent results.
You will be completely relaxed, you won’t need to do any movements or exercises. Your mindset is not on doing therapy work. It is on reaching for a deep, beautiful, nourishing, loving sexual experience within your vagina, with my guidance.
You don’t need to do psychological work, connect with trauma or do a regression.
Such things are extremely hazardous unless done with a qualified trauma psychiatrist and I have never found them necessary when it comes to healing your sexuality through the Yoni.
It’s is a simple question of what you can create from your experience afresh now – and with my care and guidance you are able to create a new reality regardless of your past. It works in a very simple and effective manner.
The touch will start from deep stillness and connection and will very gradually progress, but always gentle, soothing, loving and very present.
You won’t need to interact, comment or do any exercises. I want you to relax with your eyes closed and go deep within your Yoni, connect with it, enter that feeling as much as you can with true savouring and connection. I will guide you how to do that.
The purpose of the Yoni massage is not to release anything. A release is not necessary and does not achieve anything.
The purpose is to create – to create positive and healthy energy that will give you healing. To understand in this process how your Yoni really works and what it needs.
It is essential that you don’t feel under any pressure to perform. These days you can read about the Yoni massage almost as intimidating – that you will need to get a long orgasm, ejaculate, have kundalini awakening, etc.
It is essential that you don’t place the success of Yoni massage on any such physiological results. You are not physiology, your sexuality is not a body reflex. The real purpose is to take you through a range of beautiful and nourishing sexual energies, which is what creates healing and growth.
You can find different interpretations and offers of Yoni massages. For something so delicate and sensitive of course it is important for you to choose a genuine and effective one. Here are some opinions I don’t subscribe to:
Not everyone who says ‘Yoni massage’ is a genuine professional. Often, this term can now be used to offer an adult massage with vaginal stimulation, as a sex service, for some sort of sexy experience.
Often, an offer like that may even talk of healing or spirituality to ‘be on the level’ to pose as a Yoni massage, but it should usually be obvious to you whether the person is a teacher / therapist or a sex worker. A genuine Yoni massage is not just a different word for general vaginal stimulation. It is a very specific experience, done by an expert, that takes you to a different level of healing or growth in sexuality.
Sometimes you can see Yoni massages explained as rubbing the vagina in the same way you would do the muscles of the back. The theory is that buy improving blood flow, lymph flow, elasticity, etc, you will improve the woman’s sexual experience. Supposedly emotional trauma is physically stored in the vaginal walls and makes them hardened or less sensitive.
Mechanical rubbing of the vagina is not going to bring a lot of result and this is not a gateway to female sexuality and sexual vitality. If anything, the vagina is a very sensual place that is likely to shut down to mechanical treatment.
Such perspective also makes you into a passive patient who may feel a short-terms increase in purely physical sensation due to more blood flow, but no real shift in your sense of lovemaking, relationship and self as a vibrant woman.
In our world it is hard to be honest that your healing will come from positive experiences of enjoyment, so many therapists feel almost pushed to describe the therapy in anatomical / medical terms. But if this is done in practice, you will of course not get far being treated like that.
Any trauma, shut down and lack of feeling in the vagina is not a physical build up. ‘Block’ is a metaphor. Rubbing physical tissues won’t resolve anything. It is about learning a new response, new presence, new emotional connection, new sensitivity inside your vagina. It’s about learning how the vagina needs to be touched, treated, interacted with. It’s about you letting go, opening and connecting – and discovering a true sexual experience in your Yoni.
I have extensive experience and I’ve seen no evidence that trauma is deposited as a physical deposit in tissues and needs ‘breaking down’. I’ve worked with lots of women with extensive trauma who had a perfectly fine and sensitive vaginal experience during sex. I’ve also worked with a lot of women with no trauma who struggled to feel their vagina.
Sometimes Yoni massage is basically vaginal stimulation but performed by a very devoted practitioner as a sacred ritual. It may have a psychological feel-good effect of being honoured and respected, but it is also important to ensure that the touch itself is not just standard stimulation but is able to create a truly different experience of your sexual energy, on the Tantric level.
If you are introduced to a genuine Tantric technique that gives you a genuine Tantric experience that develops you as a woman, then there is also no need in religious ritual, as this is not relevant to your real relationships.
To sum up, when choosing a Yoni massage you need to look for certain pointers:
A common problem is that you are promised a lot but the Yoni massage is just the typical stimulation you have received all your life. You don’t need to pay for that. You need to ensure when selecting a therapist that they seem to know something extra to the conventional sexual technique – and so they can give you a new experience that helps to heal or to learn.
A genuine Yoni massage can only be performed by an expert in female sexuality. The vagina is a very interconnected piece in the woman’s sexuality and it takes full knowledge of female sexuality to approach it correctly. If someone doesn’t have extensive experience in working with a full range of sexual responses, situations, and problems in women then they can’t approach a Yoni massage with an unknown client safely and correctly.
As mentioned, a Yoni massage is a part of a full Tantric bodywork for women, so please go ahead and book a Tantric massage in my London studio. I understand that for many women this would be a big step and you may be anxious. Call me and we can discuss how I can help, I will explain to you how my Tantric sessions for women can work for you in particular, and then you can have a think about it in your own time.
Tantric Massage For Women And Tantric Sex Teaching In London
