Does Vibrator Cause Harm / Damage?

Once or twice does no harm of course. But vibrators are harmful because they are addictive and you create some powerful conditioning over time.

The use of vibrator is truly the most primitive sexual reality your body can get, regardless of whether it ends in an orgasm or not. Your sexual being hasn’t even commenced coming alive yet, and you simply get that sneeze in the genitals. There is absolutely nothing you get from this experience. Your sexual energy hasn’t even started awakening in you, filling you up, make your heart feel good, liven up your mind. It is simply a flash.

You might think that once you have a partner and you start having real sex you will simply throw away your vibrator and forget whatever those sexual experiences were to you. However, the reason vibrators create damage is because there is already a pattern in your body to look for being stimulated that way to get things quickly and in this manner. Your body has got used to getting shallow hit of purely physiological pleasure with no time for making love, feeling anything beyond that, sharing anything or being tender. Your body is not used to anything else any more, it doesn’t look for anything else and it doesn’t recognize it, it can not respond to anything that is not similar to this hard and vigorous stimulation of a vibrator.

I observe this in effect in when I do Tantric massage sessions for women in London clients all the time.

Once you have sex you will of course be willing to experience all that, but the vibrator has already caused harm, it will be difficult for your conditioned genitals to truly feel, connect, experience anything less aggressive, to feel your partner, to experience happiness, to not be greedy and demanding. Your genitals will have lost their sensitivity. You will need aggressive stimulation for them to feel anything and of course real sex with a man offers a much less aggressive touch than the vibrator.

You don’t need to do this to yourself, you don’t need to look for that immediate hit. You need to give yourself some love, give your body some love and harmonic happy pleasure, you need to respect that sexual energy, savour it and take it in slowly, enjoy it and feel how it unfolds. Skip watching TV sometimes and commit to spending some time on this. When you self-pleasure, do it with care and tenderness of your hands, and try to develop more sensitivity there to the touching. You really don’t need to desperately rub yourself in solitude – make love to someone in your imagination, make it a date, follow through your fantasy in real time and make it a practice of lovemaking to a human not a robot.

By keeping your sexual energy and psyche on that wavelength you will also be attracting someone into your life. And when he comes along you will be able to meet him as a tender, vibrant, sensitive human being who can experience love and pleasure whenever you desire and with any kind of stimulation.

You can reverse this habit by learning in a guided Yoni massage session in my London studio how to treat your sexual energy well.

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