Hello, I am Alexey.

(A WELCOME VIDEO FROM ME IS FURTHER DOWN THE PAGE, WHERE YOU CAN SEE ME)

You are very welcome here – and I would love to help you.

I know you’re nervous – so I’d like to reassure you:

You are in the right place for genuine and professional work with sexuality. (Not an adult service)

I have 24 years of experience in my professional practice in London, working with Tantric / Yoni massage sessions for women, and Tantric sexuality coaching and workshops for couples.

My practice, Tantric Therapy London, was one of the first professional studios on Tantric sexuality in UK, in 2002, before the more recent commercial Tantra boom.

I have a professional background in Western sexology, extensive study and training in genuine Tantric sexuality, and over two decades of working with thousands of women of wide range of situations in my very busy London practice, helping my clients effectively to resolve all of the common sex problems – or often to simply discover and develop a more fulfilling sexuality!

But more importantly, with my years of experience I can create for you a space that feels safe, respectful and personal to you – with warmth, care and clear boundaries throughout.

I love helping people on this journey. It is a joy for me to see people feeling well – so I will do what I can to support you.

I do know this is a big step for you… please take your time and reach out to me when you are ready – I will be very happy for us to have an informal chat at no commitment.

Some Reassurances For My Sessions:

I understand that you are nervous. Of course it is important for you to feel safe and in good hands. Here are some helpful ideas to support you:

Speak to me
Feel free to arrange a call with me – you have nothing to lose and I will do my best to explain and reassure you. Then you can think about it.

Read stories of other women
On Reviews Page you can see beautiful stories of women’s journeys via my work. Most readers say ‘there is one just like me’ 🙂

View the list of sex problems I work with
I have a lot of experience with most sex problems women have. Please see the list and how Tantric massage helps with them.

Get a reference from a client
I can arrange a phone call for you with one of my clients.

More info here

Articles in national media:

These national publications featured an interview with me:

COSMOPOLITAN 1: VIEW >>>

COSMOPOLITAN 2: VIEW >>>

METRO: VIEW >>>

MARIE CLAIRE: VIEW >>>

THE SUN: VIEW >>>

(THE SUN Workshop was given by me with my assistant Lara, but the editorial wanted the female teacher angle – however, we are both mentioned at the end of the article)

Features in books

You can read an interview with me in the wonderful book for women to live unapologetically by Annalie Howling:

Unapologetic: Unshackle Your Shame, Reclaim Your Power

A description of my sessions session was also included by Isabel Losada in her book in 2014:

Sensation: Adventures in Sex, Love & Laughter

Teaching Projects

I am currently involved in building several sex education projects, the details of which I will shortly publish here, watch this space.

Well, you can watch the video about me personally further down and read what brought me to work professionally with sexuality.

But this is not about me – it’s about you.

I think the most important question you have right now is: is this the right person for me to work with?

So what makes me not just a ‘nice safe person’ – but somebody you can trust in this delicate work to make it safe, productive and actually achieve what you need?

Well, my practice in London dedicated to sexuality has been my full-time and life-long profession.

To help you, I will draw on over 20 years of experience working with women through Tantric bodywork and educating people on Tantric sexuality.

I have a professional background in Western sexology combined with extensive training in Tantric methods.

My practice has been in effect a two-decade long practical research to develop what optimally works in sexuality in general, and specifically how to deliver it to you via the sessions of Tantric massage for women, Yoni massage and Tantric sex coaching and workshops.

So I have extensive experience with most issues in sexuality and I can usually address them for you with a solid method.

I am often able to offer my clients a solution where conventional routes or therapies didn’t help.

My long-term practice also means I have extensive experience in working with many different clients. So in my sessions I can hold space for you, design an effective process, work with your feedback, and keep the process guided, grounded and safe for you, meet challenges that arise for you and find solutions.

This is very important in a delicate area like sexuality and this is where this kind of work most commonly fails – when a practitioner can do a nice massage but they are not able to hold the overall process for the client.

It is true that this is an unregulated field and it is wise to be cautious in it. In my sessions always work with utmost integrity where this work is always about you, and to help you. You are always in control during our appointment, fully informed, with clear communication and boundaries and we follow your choices as a client who I serve.

This is all just to reassure you that you will be in a professional space. But of course a big part part of this is to make it a very comfortable and relaxed space for you 🙂

I am used to clients being nervous or needing support. I do my best to create a nurturing, warm and supportive space for you where you are always gently guided at your level of comfort.

My methods on sexual problems are described in detail at the bottom of this page:

Help With Sex Problems via Tantric massage

For general growth and development in sexuality my method is described on this page:

How Tantric Massage Develops Your Sex Life

WELCOME VIDEO FROM ME:

How I came to work with sexuality professionally and to open my practice in London in 2002…

Honestly, I don’t have a crisis-to-transformation story to tell as a marketing device…

Early in life I became very involved in exploring Eastern philosophies and spiritual teachings. On that background, I always felt sexuality as something very meaningful and beautiful, from the start.

And I initially explored all the alternative holistic practices of sexuality (e.g. Tantric, Taoist and others) in my personal journey.

In my early personal experiences I discovered that I was able to help women in their sexuality – such as some healing or a change. They would often share this with me but I was simply expressing my feeling of what sex is.

Sexuality became very interesting to me as something really beautiful, meaningful and powerful for us. At the same time I could see how many problems people were having with the mainstream approach to sex and how deeply traumatic that often was.

At some point I felt I wanted this to be my work in life, to contribute – like we all choose. For several reasons. I found the area of sexuality a fascinating new frontier. I found it very important and meaningful to help people with – how much it can mean for them. And I felt I had an ability and passion to offer something in this field.

My initial professional training and education was in Western sexology, however it soon confirmed to me what I already knew – that the mainstream approach to sexuality is very limited, it doesn’t deliver to people’s true needs – and in fact it actually leads people to many of their problems in sex. So this wasn’t where I could help.

I delved more into my experience with Tantric and Taoist practices and I received further substantial training in how to apply those methods in working with clients on sexual problems and developing their sexuality.

This was the foundation for opening my Tantric Therapy London practice in 2002.

The rest was over 20 years of intensive experience and practical research in my practice. Over this time I developed these advanced sexuality approaches further via my practical research and created better methods. I trained in a number of other mind-body modalities and adapted them for sexuality to integrate into my work. I have never left conventional sexology and sex science and I continue following it professionally and adding that to my practice.

As a disclaimer about Tantric certifications – while many  ‘certifications’ sprung up in recent years, long after I started working, these are private enterprises rather than regulated professional credentials. I am transparent that I am not an  therapist, counsellor or psychotherapist and I am not in a position of authority or power in our sessions. I am a sex coach experienced in the full range of solutions and methods and I work with you as a client who is in control, informed and makes choices with my help.

In my sessions in my London practice I aim to help clients to develop their sex life to a greater level beyond normal sex. Where sex stops being just fun and games and becomes a deeply fulfilling journey, a powerful and positive energy in your life, a source of wellbeing, a source of love, and a sustainable evergreen relationship that can last you your whole life together.

I believe sex is a hugely important part of wellbeing, happiness, connection, relationship and your self. In my sessions I aim to equip people with practical ways to live sex on that level, and at the same time through that to indeed discover a much richer quality and range of sex – the beauty, richness and happiness that we often so narrowly describe as ‘pleasure’.

I believe that Tantric sexuality is everyone’s higher potential in sex. It is just a better and more fulfilling sex life. Everyone can have it if they learn.

There is no need for spiritual beliefs or conversion into Tantric rituals. I don’t include that in my sessions with clients and I find them totally irrelevant. I teach the heart of Tantric sexuality as principles to approach your sexual energy, as a greater mastery of your abilities in sex. So I strive to be able to teach any kind of person, speaking their language and working towards their aspirations or solutions.

I integrate a blend of Tantric sexuality, Taoist practices, western sexology, current sex science and much of my own research – observations from my professional practice. Any ideas I use have been reworked to remove any cultural or religious context, leaving the essence that is easy to understand in concept and simply works in practice, suitable for the modern person of today.

My aim is to make sure that whatever you learn can be used realistically in real life.

In terms of my educational sessions – I try to create a space in our appointment where your personal views and preferences are respected. During the appointment I simply share with you some other ideas you might want to try. I leave people in control of their learning, the pace and their conscious choices of what they want to learn from me, and I encourage you to question what I teach for your own life, so that we can get to the truth that will really work for you.

In terms of working on sexual issues, my approach is that most of the time problems come from misuse and by learning a better approach we remove the problems. I don’t see my clients as ill or deficient, I see them as people who can learn how to create or overcome, someone who simply can develop further. I create a very patient, gentle, unforced space which will be personally pleasant and relaxing as well as supportive.

To be honest in my personal life I am quite a socially shy and a very private person, and don’t like talking about myself that much.

I have complete presence for a person when I work with them.

But I don’t like much sharing private things about myself online. This is also a reason I don’t have social media (I really don’t like it) and if I did it would have been strictly professional.

I work with clients on select days every month – after the initial conversation I can give you my availability.

When I don’t work with clients, I currently have a number of teaching projects I am producing in the field of sexuality, so I spend a lot of my time on research and production. My work is my calling which I do every day one way or another.

I have my own quiet life and my own practices that are dear to me.

Something clients usually want to know is that my work with clients doesn’t serve any of my own emotional or sexual needs. I am in a committed relationship with my long term partner and all my personal needs are fulfilled with her. My partner believes in what I do and supports me completely in my work with Tantric massages, because like me she considers it important work, and we met when it was already my life. My work with clients is entirely for the benefit of the client, where my enjoyment comes from professional satisfaction of helping people and delivering results in the area in which I specialize.