ABOUT ME

Hello – I am Alexey

I have been working in London for the last 20 years, in my dedicated practice ‘Tantric Therapy’.

(welcome video from me is further down)

My practice Tantric Therapy London is one of the oldest established London and UK practices dedicated to authentic Tantric bodywork for women, and workshops on Tantric sexuality for couples. This practice has nothing to do with the adult market or superficial / unprofessional Tantric massages.

I opened  in 2002 and I was one of the first initial pioneers of Tantric bodywork applied to serious work with sexuality in the UK, before the current commercial boom in Tantra training, and before the bodywork was appropriated by the sex market.

For the last 20 years my work with clients in London has consisted of:

– Tantric massages women – for healing and development

– Helping with sexual problems ( as an alternative or complement to conventional sex therapy) for women via bodywork

– Sex coaching for men, women and couples via consultations

– Workshops and consultations on Tantric sexuality.

I have 20 years of extensive experience with many situations or difficulties that you may experience in your sex life. You can see the full list of issues I work with on my Help with Sex Problems for Women page – plus the method to describe how I work with each issue.

My expertise, my background, my story and my approach are described further below on this page.

REASSURANCES

 

I completely understand that you will be nervous about doing this work.

It is totally fine and I will do my best to reassure you:

Speak to me and ask anything you need until you are reassured.

Please feel free to arrange a phone call with me. I will answer all your questions at no commitment, and you can get a feel for whether I can help you. (However, we will need to do some initial exchanges by email – this is just to do with the best process).

Read reviews from my clients

The Reviews Page has plenty of stories written first hand by my clients.

View the sex therapy list and my methods

I have an extensive list of sexual difficulties that I have solid experience with, and I describe the method in detail. This should reassure you that I can address your problem professionally. Please read the bottom of this page:

Help with Sex Problems for Women via Tantric Massage

Get a reference from a client

I am happy to arrange a phone call for you with one of my clients.

Media articles

If it helps to reassure you, you can view these articles from major publications that featured me on Tantric massage and Tantric sexuality:

COSMO:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30072124/yoni-massage/

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a10294826/tantric-sex/

METRO:

https://metro.co.uk/2016/05/25/women-are-now-paying-to-have-expert-vagina-massages-5902375/

THE SUN:

(Workshop was given by me and Lara, but because the editorial wanted a female teacher angle she mentioned mostly Lara. However, we are both mentioned at the end of the article)

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/12863572/i-tried-a-tantric-sex-tutorial/

MARIE CLAIRE:

https://www.marieclaire.co.uk/life/sex-and-relationships/everything-you-need-to-know-about-tantric-sex-295027

Feature in a book

If it reassures you to read a description of my sessions you can read Isabel Losada’s:

Sensation: Adventures in Sex, Love & Laughter

Teaching Projects

I am currently involved in building several sex education projects, the details of which I will shortly publish here, watch this space.

MY EXPERTISE

I have 20 years of experience in helping women through Tantric bodywork and educating on Tantric sexuality. I am a professional who is dedicated entirely to the research and work in sexuality only.

Over the 20 years I have chosen to work only with seriously intentioned clients who needed to solve their difficulties, needed healing or wanted to develop and grow in the area of sexuality.

My practice has been in effect a two-decade long practical research to distill what truly works.

As a result I have extensive experience with most issues in sexuality and I can usually address them for you with a solid method. I am often able to find a solution where conventional routes or therapies were not able to.

My long-term practice also means I have extensive experience in working with many different female clients, being able to handle difficulties, hold the space for you, design an effective process for you, work with your feedback, and keep the process guided, grounded and safe for you. This is very important in a delicate area like sexuality and this is where this kind of work most commonly fails – when a practitioner is not able to lead the process correctly.

It is true that over the years there have been problems from practitioners in this field. I always work with utmost integrity where you are always in control, fully informed, aware and you make choices as a client who I serve.

This is all just to reassure you that you will be in a professional space. But of course part of this is to make it a very comfortable and relaxed space for you 🙂

I create a loving, nurturing and warm space for you where you are always gently guided at your level of comfort.

My methods on sexual problems are described in detail at the bottom of this page:

Help With Sex Problems via Tantric massage

For general growth and development in sexuality my method is described on this page:

How Tantric Massage Develops Your Sex Life

I was initially qualified in medical massage from a medical university and I had a successful practice.

I later retrained to work with Tantric sexuality for coaching and helping with sexual problems and I opened ‘Tantric Therapy’ in 2002.

ABOUT ME

Please use all the suggested ways to get further reassurance from me and please also read this important article on why working with a male may be more natural and beneficial for you:

WELCOME VIDEO FROM ME:

KEEP READING ABOUT MY EXPERIENCE, BACKGROUND AND APPROACH:

My Background

How I came into this work…

I know it may sound unusual, but I didn’t have a personal crisis or a battle with sexuality that lead me to work in this area.

Instead, I always felt a very profound connection with sexuality. From an early age I felt sex as something special and powerful, something I honoured and  experienced as a deep connection, experience of love and energy and beauty of life. This is what lead me to be so interested in it – because I felt this aspect of life is very important.

Very early in my adult life, while involved with exploring Eastern philosophies and spiritual teachings, I discovered that I was able to help women in their sexuality. In my personal experiences women would often share with me that they felt a healing or transformative effect. For me, I was simply expressing my feeling of what sex is, but I started to pay more attention to these effects.

I was naturally drawn to exploring the alternative approaches to sexuality – Tantric and Taoist practices – which offered a more profound and energy-conscious practice of sexuality.

It was a natural progression for me to work in this area. I felt I had the ability for it and I wanted to do something meaningful and be of service.

I did a very comprehensive cross-study of these practices, and I completed extensive training in these practices to coach on Tantric sex and to perform Tantric massage as a way to improve various sex problems.

I had a massage practice at the time after qualifying in massage therapy from a medical university and in 2002 I changed it to offering Tantric bodywork and Tantric sexuality workshops.

This was just the foundation, the rest was 20 years of intensive experience and practical research in my practice. I have developed the sacred sexuality approaches much further via my practical research and created better methods. I have trained in a number of other mind-body modalities and adapted them for sexuality to integrate into my work. I follow all current developments in sacred sexuality methodology, as well a sex science. My method is a 20 years old solid blend of all the available relevant practices and extensive experience – both in sex coaching and helping with the full range of sex problems.

Note that Tantric bodywork is not a regulated field or accredited form of ‘therapy’. I am transparent that I am not a therapist, counsellor or psychotherapist and I am not in a position of authority or power in our sessions. I am a sex coach experienced in the full range of solutions and methods and I work with you as a client who is in control, informed and makes choices with my help.

 

My Mission and My Professional Approach

My work is to help clients to develop their sex life to a greater level beyond normal sex. Where sex stops being just fun and games and becomes a deeply fulfilling journey, a powerful and positive energy in your life, a source of wellbeing, a source of love, and a sustainable evergreen relationship that can last you your whole life together.

My mission through my work is to raise consciousness that sex is not just fun and pleasure. It is a hugely important part of wellbeing, happiness, connection, relationship and your self. My work is to equip people with practical ways to live sex on that level, and at the same time through that indeed discover new range of experiences of beauty, richness, happiness that we often so narrowly describe as ‘pleasure’.

I believe that Tantric sexuality is everyone’s higher potential in sex. It is just a better and more fulfilling sex life. Everyone can have it if they learn.

There is no need for spiritual beliefs or conversion into Tantric rituals. I teach these principles as the common sense treatment of your sexual energy, as a greater mastery of your inner abilities in sex. So I strive to be able to teach any kind of person, speaking their language and working towards their aspirations or solutions.

My work integrates a blend of Tantric ideas, Taoist ideas, western sexuality and much of my own research – observations from practice, personal and professional. The Eastern ideas that I use have been reworked to remove any cultural or religious context, leaving the essence that is easy to understand in concept and simply works in practice, suitable for the modern person of today.

My aim is to make sure that whatever you learn can be used realistically in real life. I always take into account the point of departure of a client, what they can relate to, what would be the realistic challenges and solutions in their life.

In terms of educational sessions – for individuals and couples – I try to create a space where your personal views and preferences are respected. I simply share with you some other ideas you might want to try. I leave people in control of their learning, the pace and their conscious choices of what they want to learn from me, and I encourage you to question what I teach for your own life, so that we can get to the truth that will really work for you.

In terms of working on sexual issues, my approach is that most of the time problems come from misuse and by learning how to treat ourselves right we remove the problems. I don’t see my clients as ill or deficient, I see them as people who can learn how to create or overcome, someone who simply can develop further. I create a very patient, gentle, unforced space which will be personally pleasant and relaxing as well as supportive.

My Personal Life

I work with clients on select days every month – after the initial conversation I can give you my availability.

When I don’t work with clients, I currently have a number of teaching projects I am producing in my field, so I spend a lot of my time on research in my field, on production and on theoretical work. My work is my calling which I live and breathe daily and my greatest passion in life, so it never really stops.

I have my own spiritual journey and a number of practices: a long term practice of yoga, internal chi arts, meditation and a range of other personal development practices which contribute to my energy when working with clients.

My work with clients doesn’t serve any of my own emotional or sexual needs. I am in a committed relationship to my long term partner and all my personal needs are fulfilled with her. My partner believes in what I do and supports me in my work fully, because like me she considers it important work. My work with clients is entirely for the benefit of the client, where my enjoyment comes from professional satisfaction of helping people and delivering results in the area in which I specialize.

FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION

I understand that this is a big step and you are anxious. It is also hard to decide it on your own whether working with me is right for you and how it would work – because you don’t know much about this.

I would be very happy to set up a free 20-30 minute phone call where we can talk it through – at no commitment.

All I ask is that you first send me some details on your situation and what you wanted to see me about, so I can see whether I can help. I would also need to send you some info on how I currently work, and if you are ok with that I will then be happy to set up a time for us to talk.

This way you can explore the possibility without anything to lose or to risk and then you can decide if it is right for you.

Remember that you can also start with online consultations, and then progress to Tantric massage from there.

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